(Closed) Did You Know What Your Groom Was Wearing?

posted 4 years ago in Grooms/men
  • poll: Who Picked Your FI's Suit?
    He did, and I never even saw it. : (8 votes)
    8 %
    We picked it together, but he did the rest. : (15 votes)
    16 %
    We picked it, we styled it -- no surprises here! : (73 votes)
    76 %
  • Post # 2
    1483 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2015

    We picked everything out together–Suit, vest, tie, pocket square.  His brother/best man also came with and we picked out his suit too so we can see how well his suit would go with the groomsmen’s.  

    Post # 3
    1602 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2016

    I mean, you can do that if you want to. I don’t see anything wrong with it. But it does seem a bit strange. Most men’s suits look very similar and I’m guessing it’s not like he’s going to have full hair and jewelry to add to his overal look….so I guess I don’t really see there being much of a “surprise”. Will he look great? Sure. But unless he opts for a dumb and dumber esque suit, I don’t see much that will be surprise worthy. 

    Summary: do it if you want and it doesn’t cause too much extra work for your mom and Future Mother-In-Law but don’t be expecting a huge reveal/surprise. 

    Post # 4
    1385 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: February 2016

    My husband chose his own tux and accessories (socks, shoes, belt, shirt, bow tie, pocket square), and he chose his groomsmen’s attire as well. I saw it all before, but he also saw what I was wearing– actually, he chose my dress too! Lol

    Post # 5
    4239 posts
    Honey bee

    Fun! I knew what mine was wearing as he wanted help picking it out. 

    Post # 6
    9520 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper

    He picked it for himself and the groomsmen, but showed it to me. Not a surprise. That was not an option in your poll 

    Post # 7
    880 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2006

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    freckledfrida :  

    My husband wore a basic black tailored suit with a black tie. I gave him cufflinks as a wedding present and that’s the only part of his attire that I knew about before our elopement. I trusted him to look appropriate for our wedding. We knew he didn’t need to wear a tux since we were just having a small and casual cermony. My wedding gown was very simple as well. 

    Post # 8
    7741 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: February 1997

    DH did not see my dress, and I did not see what he chose until the wedding. He and his father and brother went shopping for their suits together. I figured if I could choose my own clothing, he could, too. I dressed myself and chose the bridesmaids dresses; he dressed himself and chose the suits for the groomsmen.

    Post # 9
    501 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: August 2016

    My husband is not the best when it comes to fashion. If he had it his way he would’ve worn sweat pants and t-shirt for our wedding. So for his outfit I prettry much picked out everything. We okay, we picked it out. I narrowed down his options and he decided between them. Same goes for his groomsmen πŸ™‚

    Post # 11
    2550 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: August 2014

    I didn’t know, although I did know it was something rented from Men’s Warehouse because I came along with him and did some other shopping while he picked it.  I wanted him to pick what he wanted and I have this rare genetic condition where I can’t keep my opinion to myself.

    I liked what he picked better than what I would’ve picked so I’m glad I wasn’t there.  I always thought suspenders and a bowtie were kind of juvenile but they actually looked pretty hot on him πŸ™‚

    Post # 12
    455 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: September 2016 - Hunting Hill Mansion

    Aw that’s cute πŸ™‚ πŸ™‚ I know only because our wedding is very formal so he and the groomsmen will be wearing black tuxes. No real surprise there haha but there aren’t too many options for a black tie affair.

    Post # 13
    549 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: April 2017

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    freckledfrida :  I’m picking everything for my SO. He has no real strong opinions when it comes to clothing, and if I left it up to him he would show up in a tuxedo tshirt. 

    Post # 14
    4419 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: October 2016

    I picked it! Hehe! πŸ˜„πŸ˜„

    Post # 15
    5148 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: January 2010

    I knew what he was wearing as he made/sewed his outfit himself so I saw him making it and when it was done πŸ™‚

    My husband also knew what I was wearing. I showed him the dress ahead of time as “surprising” him with it was not a concern of mine.

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