(Closed) Did you plan any activities for your guests before/after the wedding?

posted 5 years ago in Destination Weddings
Post # 2
10282 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2016

Our wedding was where we lived but it was a destination for the majority of our guests (at least an 8 hour drive or plane ride). We did not plan anything in the days leading up or afterwards. We did spend a lot of time with our families who had traveled but it was all very casual, no official plans or dinners or events. I don’t think it’s necessary.

Post # 3
6798 posts
Busy Beekeeper

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jn1122 :  We included any guests who had arrived in our rehearsal dinner (which was pretty casual).  We also had a brunch the next day. I felt like including them in as much as I could was appropriate since they’d all come such a long way.  Additionally, though I assumed they could all figure out what to do with their time, I did provide some suggestions for places to see on our wedding website – parks, hikes, museums, places to eat, etc.  Our guests almost exclusively came from the east or west coasts to our wedding in Utah, so they weren’t familiar with the area at all.  As far as I can tell, no one lacked things to do.

Post # 4
403 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: Florida

I think it would be great to do a welcome reception!


my friend got married in Jamaica last year, and planned a week of events and festivities and it was a blast! 

Post # 5
906 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2016

We’re having a welcome party since most of our guests are coming from out of town. It will be in lieu of a rehearsal dinner, as we figure this will be more fun!

Post # 6
14043 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

With guests coming from another country/continent, I think a welcome dinner would be appropriate.

Post # 7
427 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2016

I’ve been to 2 destination weddings of close friends:

One wedding they organized for anyone who wanted to attend a local large luau, guests paid the groom.

Another wedding the couple organized a welcome booze cruise the night before with drinks and heavy apps on a legit yacht and paid for it. A bunch of us also went out to a club downtown maybe the night after. 

Post # 8
62 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: June 2017

We are getting married in a small mountain town in Switzerland and will be hosting a welcome reeption on the Thursday, dinner on Friday, and brunch on Sunday.  Everyone who comes to the wedding is invited to all the other events.  We have also added some information and “things to do” on our website so if guests come early they have an idea of what they can find to do in the town.

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