(Closed) Did you send save the dates?

posted 7 years ago in Paper
  • poll: Did/will you send save the dates?

    Yes and I wouldn't do it again

    Yes and I would do it again


    Yes we plan to send them

  • Post # 3
    522 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: March 2014

    We’re not sending them.  My wedding isn’t local for my family or my fiance’s (we live in a city far from both families) but our parents have already spread the word about the date.  We plan on sending out invites early (about 3 months out) to give people time to finalize travel plans.  Save the dates just felt like too much extra money and hassle to us, so we’re skipping them without regret.  🙂

    Post # 4
    3194 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    @MrsBeck:  we sent them, because we had a lot of people that would need to travel for the wedding. i’m glad we did, even though USPS lost a lot of ours.

    Post # 5
    512 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2014

    i plan on sending them and look forward to it! i’m only sending it to the 100% for-sure-will-be-invited ones, and don’t intend to spend months choosing “the perfect design” a pretty picture from our engagement photos should do! i’m also not concerned about things like my parents changing their minds simply because i’m inviting the same family friends that my sister did a couple year ago and my parent’s aren’t dramatic and do things like change their mind on old friends… lol

    Post # 6
    724 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    We aren’t sending save-the-dates because we are having two waves of invites. I guess we could send them to guest list A to ensure that more of them will be there…I really don’t want to invite guest list B (a side of the family who were total a’holes to my now-deceased father who I don’t really want at our wedding day)

    And now I’m considering sending them…..

    Post # 7
    922 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2013

    @MrsBeck:  We did because we had the time (sent them 9 months before).  It was another fun crafty project for me.  I also liked that it was an engagement anouncement, too so we were able to share our news with everyone.  I personally love getting save the dates and putting things on my calendar well in advance.  I loved doing mine, and everyone who received one loved them, too.

    Post # 8
    112 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    We did not do Save the Dates.  If I had an unlimited budget, I would have loved to have sent them, but I saw this as an area where I could cut.  All those little things add up!  Ours is also a destination wedding, but we spread the word about the date to most of our closest friends and family, and I mailed our invites about four months in advance (with a second wave about 1-2 months out). 

    Post # 9
    1769 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: June 2014

    We’re doing them for three main reasons: 1) Everyone keeps asking when we’ll send one out 2) this gives us an excuse to gather addresses earlier 3) I love our e-pics and want to brag.

    Post # 10
    3723 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2014

    @MrsBeck:  Hi there. I just ordered our STD postcards. Our wedding is not local to many of our guests so we are sending STD’s to our out of town family and friends so they can arrange/anticipate travel. Local guests will not be getting STD’s unless I’m feeling postage rich. 🙂

    Post # 11
    1285 posts
    Bumble bee

    We are doing them. Getting our e-pics done next weekend.  We are getting sick of everyone asking us “when”…plus we have a few family members out of town.

    Post # 12
    2554 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    We did not send them. Our wedding wasn’t local, it was in my hometown which is on the opposite end of the country. Our guests came from all over Canada. Most people heard word of mouth when it was and we just sent the invitations early. We still had 120 people show up out of 160 invited which I think is what we would have got even if we’d used save the dates.

    Post # 13
    11231 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: August 2013

    We sent them. They were cute and people loved them.

    Post # 14
    1639 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: November 2013

    We didn’t send them because we have other things to use that money for. Our out-of-town families were given PLENTY of notice by Future Mother-In-Law because she was so freaking excited about the engagement she couldn’t keep our mouth shut. She did all of our work for us for free. XD

    Post # 15
    13889 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 1999

    We sent them, but our wedding required significant travel for most people so I felt they were necessary.  If we had a local wedding, I would not have sent them.

    Post # 16
    604 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: November 2013

    We sent them and I’m happy that we did.  A lot of our guests have to travel for our wedding so it was nice to give them a heads up.  There’s only 1 person I sent an STD to who I’d now wish I could uninvite so overall it was good for us. 

    I went to a desination wedding in Florida a few years ago where the couple just sent the invites out 4 or 5 months before the wedding.  That works too…as long as you give people a few months to make their travel plans. 

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