Did you set hens/bucks night rules?

posted 6 years ago in Parties
  • poll: Did you set hens/bucks night rules/guidelines?
    Yes!! : (15 votes)
    44 %
    No!! : (19 votes)
    56 %
  • Post # 3
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    8362 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper

    No rules. I trust my partner 100% to make the right choices without having to dictate what they are.

    Post # 5
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    9056 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2010

    Have fun; be safe!

    Post # 6
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    2281 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    “Don’t do anything that would make me cry.” 

    He said, “Never would.”

    Post # 7
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    6248 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: August 1900

    No rules.  But we have been together for so many years that we know each others boundaries and we know what is “acceptable” and “unacceptable” in our relationship.

    Post # 8
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    2058 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    My rule for Fiance and his rule for me is the same: no sex!

     

    Post # 9
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    509 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    No worries with this one! We’re having a co-ed bash.

    Post # 10
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    778 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    We both thought the whole bach/bachelorette party thing was kind of dumb and juvenile, so we just went out for dinner and drinks with about 10 of our closest friends a couple of nights before our wedding. We had a great time. I should probably explain that we have many shared friends, our friendships aren’t sex-segregated, and we don’t get to see many of these people as often as we’d like b/c we live in a different state now, so the prevailing feeling was that splitting up artificially would have just diminished everyone’s fun.

    But in general, I wouldn’t marry a man whose conduct and judgment I didn’t trust implicitly. If a bride can’t trust her fiance to behave with integrity before the wedding unless he’s given a list of rules, she either views him as a child who needs to be told how to behave, or as a moral degenerate who will betray her if he thinks he can get away with it. Which is not to say that she’s incorrect or at fault in her assessment that he can’t be trusted unless given a set of rules for behavior. It’s just that she’s an idiot if she reaches that conclusion and yet signs up for a lifetime of vulnerability to his decision making.

    Post # 11
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    853 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    our rule, out of curtesy for each other, no strippers. We respect each other more than that, and the rule is more for our guests to adhere too.

    Post # 13
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    915 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    I wouldn’t need to, nor would my Fiance. 

    Post # 14
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    10453 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: February 2014

    No strippers for either of us. I think that’s disgusting.

    Post # 15
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    6015 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: March 2012

    Yeah I didn’t give him any rules.  He’s a former Marine, married, divorced and single for awhile,  if there was something he really wanted to do he’s probably already done it, and wouldn’t be saving it for his bachelor party.  As it was he was passed out on the couch when I got home.

     

    Post # 16
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    755 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    don’t get injured (he’s into extreme sports)

     

    the fellas say that can’t promise that entirely, just no serious injuries.

     

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