(Closed) Did you set hens/bucks night rules?

posted 8 years ago in Parties
  • poll: Did you set hens/bucks night rules/guidelines?

    Yes!!

    No!!

  • Post # 16
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    Wannabee
    • Wedding: December 1969

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    ArmyWife8806 :  me and my partner are also doing a joint one

    Post # 17
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    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: June 2016

    His Bridesmaid or Best Man asked me if there were any rules while planning the bachelor party. I told him as long as he didn’t get my Fiance arrested and everyone stayed safe, we were good. 

    Obviously, I would have been upset if he ended up making out with some other girl, but I also know he wouldn’t, so I didn’t feel like it was appropriate- or necessary- to give some detailed list of allowed and unallowed. And it went fine. 

    That being said, if you object to anything that’s a fairly standard part of the experience (heavy drinking, for instance) definitely say something beforehand! Don’t afterwards be upset with him for not knowing you didn’t want him to do it, that’s not fair to anyone.

    Post # 18
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: July 2017

    I dont mind watching strippers hell I dont care if they want to watch live porn but I draw the line at touching/dry humping… viewing is one thing, participating is another

    a few years ago fiance friend had his stag and there where some lap dances and drunkeness (apparently not my fiance he got so drunk he blacked out before the strip club which totally sounds like him lol) but the fall out was catastrophic when the other girls found out

    I think they would all think twice before daring to attempt that again – ever since the stag dos have been much tamer, mostly sports based ones

    Post # 19
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2017 - Poppy Ridge Golf Course

    We’ve openly discussed acceptable behavior and boundaries since the start. We trust each other enough to understand neither of us would cross those boundaries even for one night. No rules required. Have fun and be safe covers it. But both of us are pretty meh regarding these events. 

    Post # 20
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    Worker bee
    • Wedding: July 2016

    I’ve told my Fiance at length how I feel about bachelor parties (the “traditions” are stupid), and while he can’t guarantee that his buddies won’t include a visit to the strip club as part of the itinerary, I trust him enough not to do anything that would upset me. He disagrees with the whole bachelor party= naked ladies thing too, so I’m not too worried about him crossing any lines. I honestly think he’d rather just go to a dive bar and get drunk with his friends, but his buddies are mostly single and would love an excuse to go to a strip club.

    So, while I didn’t set any rules, I did tell him how certain things would make me feel (flirting with random girls at a bar, getting a lap dance, getting escessively shitfaced, etc.), and I trust that he’ll be able to have a great night without compromising my feelings.

    Pretty sure my bachelorette will involve board games, a bottle of wine, and maybe a dinner at a nice restaurant, so no need to set any rules in my direction 😛

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