(Closed) Did you want to try again after miscarriage

posted 5 years ago in Pregnancy
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2009

We had a surprise (kind of; we were NTNT) pregnancy, and following the MC, we decided to wait. Neither of us was emotionally ready to try again. With my recent diagnosis of PCOS, we have decided to wait even longer and I’ll be getting the implanon. After 3 years, when it comes out, we may TTC right away.

Post # 5
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

@FutureMrsWillard88:  Did your spotting (from previous post) continue? I’m so sorry you’re dealing with this.  Crossing my fingers for your appt. Wednesday

Post # 7
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I haven’t had any surprise pregnancies since we’ve been ttc for 3 years now, but I’ve had 6 miscarriages and what I can tell you from my personal experience is to give yourself a chance to grieve and THEN to really think about when and if you want to ttc again.  Don’t make decision in the heart of your pain and grief because often you will find strength to keep going once the grief has passed.

I hope this ends up being simply a scare and not a miscarriage for you.  *hugs*

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

Yes. After a surprise pregnancy in late March of last year, and having to have a d and c in June, I felt like there was a piece missing in my life. Darling Husband agreed. My maternal instincts really kicked in and I was baby crazy while fighting off some depression of the loss. We decided to wait 6 months to try because our wedding was in March. I am crossing my fingers you are just having a scare. 

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

@FutureMrsWillard88:  yes!!! Have a beautiful, fun wedding day!!! I can’t wait to see pictures. I’m so sorry for your loss. If you need someone to talk to, I am here!

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