(Closed) Did you wear your wedding jewelry before your wedding?

posted 8 years ago in Rings
  • poll: Did you wear your wedding jewelry before your wedding?

    No! None! Never!

    Yes, but only certain pieces (please explain).

    Yes, any and all of it

    Other. Because every good poll has this option!

  • Post # 3
    342 posts
    Helper bee

    I bought a pair of earrings to wear for my wedding, which I wont wear until then. But I will also be wearing a pearl necklace I already owned, so obviously I’ve worn that and will continue to wear it up until the big day. 

    Post # 4
    4835 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: April 2013

    My wedding jewlery was either personally important pieces I wear all the time or it was my “something borrowed” from my sister.  So the personal stuff I wore all the time, the borrowed stuff I didn’t wear in advance.

    Post # 5
    2925 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: January 2014

    The earrings I am wearing are ones I’ve already owned for years! I’m not wearing anything else.

    Post # 6
    5622 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: October 2014


    Post # 7
    2041 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: July 2013

    All of my wedding jewelry was borrowed, so I could not wear them beforehand.

    Post # 8
    157 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: September 2014

    I’ve put mine away in a drawer with our wedding bands.  Won’t be wearing my necklace and earrings until the big day!  I’d say don’t wear it before before your wedding so it is special and feels “new” on your day. 

    Post # 9
    1612 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    I wore the earings to see how heavy they could get – sometimes I can only have earings in for about half a day..


    and my ring of course 😉

    Post # 10
    132 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: October 2005

    My wedding jewelry was a pearl set that I already had…the bracelet and the necklace were made from a longer strand my grandmother had given my mom and the earrings were a gift for my high school graduation.  My mom had the clasp turned into a pendant and wore it on my wedding day.  I also wore my grandmother’s e-ring and a diamond bracelet I received as a 21st birthday gift.  I had worn it prior to the wedding but not in the months prior.  

    Post # 11
    391 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: April 2014

    @cbgg:  Same here. I’m not married yet, but I’ll be wearing the locket Fiance got me for valentine’s day a few years back (I wear it almost every day) and I’m planning to wear the diamond earrings my dad got me for college graduation, which I also wear very often. These pieces hold a lot of sentimental value, so I wear them often because I don’t like to be apart from them. I will definitely also want to wear them at the wedding! I’ll probably wear a bracelet from my aunt for my something borrowed, and that I will not wear in advance. 

    Post # 12
    248 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    My “something blue” was a tanzanite ring my grandmother bought me when I was young. My mother gave it to me at my bridal shower, and I wore it a few times, and then stopped…it’s a little big and I was scared I’d lose it.

    Post # 13
    5191 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: October 2011 - Bed & Breakfast

    I had a difficult time finding jewelry that had the right blend of modern lines and tons of sparkle for my wedding. I spent entirely too many hours searching high and low for those pieces to risk them getting damaged by wearing them before my wedding day.

    Post # 14
    1851 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: November 2013

    Okay so I wore a bracelet that my grandmother had.  After she died, I confiscated it and kept it until I gave it to my sister.  My sister let me borrow it, it has a pearl and some other colored jewels on it including blue so it was my something old, something borrowed, something blue.  My lotus pearl earrings and necklace were new and I didn’t wear those prior to the wedding.  My sister and my best friend both got the same earrings and necklace as their gifts.

    Post # 15
    5486 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: July 2012


    Post # 16
    2803 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2015

    Ask yourself these questions:

    Did you buy the ring because you love it, or did you buy it as a special thing to wear on your wedding day?

     – If you just love it and the wedding is a good excuse to buy it – then wear it! You’ll enjoy wearing it and it’s better to get your moneys worth, right?

     – If you bought it as a “special thing” then don’t wear it. You bought it so that it would be a part of your wedding and something that, when you looked at, would remind you of that day. It would be another special new thing to wear and look forward to. 

    How many other new things do you have to wear on the day? Veil? The dress? Shoes? Perfume? Necklace? 

    – If you have many new things, will one more new thing really be missed if it isn’t so new? 

    – If you don’t have many new things, do you feel like you need some new things to help keep the day special?


    Hope that helps!

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