(Closed) Did your FI? Need feedback bees.

posted 7 years ago in Parties
  • poll: Did your FI come to your shower?
    Yes, he showed up at the end. : (20 votes)
    27 %
    We had a co-ed shower. : (6 votes)
    8 %
    He stayed far far away. : (32 votes)
    44 %
    I didn't have a shower. : (12 votes)
    16 %
    I'll explain below. : (3 votes)
    4 %
  • Post # 3
    6892 posts
    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: March 2012

    Nope, he didn’t. He was (obviously) at the Couples Shower, but not the Bridal. Plus we had plenty of hands on deck to get the gifts into my car.

    Post # 4
    1231 posts
    Bumble bee

    My friend’s Fiance came in the last hour to mingle. He looked terrified at first  but someone handed him a beer and he was good after that. lol

    Post # 4
    7587 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: December 2010

    @basketballwifetobe:  It is tradition 🙂 Darling Husband showed up for the last hour of mine. After gifts and before cake. 

    Post # 5
    10851 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2010

    I’ve seen grooms show up at the END of the shower to ooh and aah over the gifts, give people a hug, kiss and thank you, and then help load up the car. I haven’t seen a groom show up to open gifts before. Darling Husband came to the end of one of mine to help load up, but he didn’t actually “attend” the shower. I think he would have been bored senseless  😉

    Post # 8
    426 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    No, but he lives in Europe, so… I don’t think he would anyways, though, except for the margaritas.. It’s a crafting party and I don’t think he’d really be into that!

    Post # 9
    2232 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    @basketballwifetobe:  haha of course!

    Fiance will be coming to the end, to bring the moms & me flowers and to help put away any gifts.

    Post # 10
    540 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2011

    My husband came and dropped me off, came in and said hi. Then he and his best man left they came back towards the end to say thank yous, and helped load up. He didn’t open gifts or anything, but I think it was nice to have him there for a bit. Plus I guess it is an English tradition to have the groom bring the bride to the bridal shower, and I’m english.

    Post # 11
    252 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: July 2012

    Because our families and friends are so spread out, I’m having 3 showers. Future Mother-In-Law & Future Sister-In-Law are throwing one where we live now with his family and my school friends, he will probably go no where near it. The second will be at my mother’s house with our MD family and friends, and he’ll be away with Army things. The last will be in NY with more of our guests and where most of my family is, he’ll be coming with me to this but off doing things w/ my brother and uncles while the shower is taking place and when it is over all of the men will join us for a party at my aunt’s house.

    Fiance really doesn’t want to come, he said last night that guys should have their own showers- where he would get accessories for his gun, ammo, grilling accessories, and a big screen TV. lol

    Post # 12
    1425 posts
    Bumble bee

    I have seen and heard of the groom coming at the last hour, but not very often.  With that said, Darling Husband absolutely did not come to either shower.  Not even to the one at MIL’s that just had his family.  He felt they’re strictly for the ladies and didn’t want to be ooh and aah’d over.  

    Post # 13
    4352 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    A friend had her Fiance there the whole time (girls only shower). He looked pretty miserable, but it was in his house (his mom threw it) so he couldn’t really avoid it. Plus all the people there were his mom’s friends and relatives, so he knew more guests than the bride.

    Post # 14
    4336 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    He showed up at the very very end for the shower with his side of the family and friends (many of whom I had never even met!) but he didn’t come to my side shower.

    Post # 15
    5295 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: January 1993

    No. He and some of the male relatives of the females who travelled in, showed up just after the guests left to help clean up. 

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