Post # 1
Hello Bees!!So its been a month since my wedding…had an awesome honeymoon for two weeks. I had two maid of honors, one was my sister and the other my best friend. Since I have been back from my honeymoon I have not heard from her. This is someone who I literally spoke to on the phone every.single.day. She hasn’t even text me. I feel like this friendship has changed drastically. Not even a text from her. I did text her about something but again..its always me contacting her. My DH says that I should just let it be, if she calls, she calls, if not, big deal. He finds her to be very selfish, which she is, she will be the first to admit it. But she has always been someone I can talk tk and confide in and we always have fun together.DH says that she is so miserable in her life and is just a miserable person in general that she doesnt care to talk to me bc she doesnt want to hear that I am happy bc she is not happy. Has anyone ever experienced this? Should I say something? Or just let it be? This week I am not going to call or text her bc I want to see if she will contact me. I mean just because I got married doesnt me I have no life now. Read more: http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/friendships-change-after-wedding#ixzz2hdZSpuwy
Post # 3
Does she know you’re back from your honeymoon? Maybe she’s just giving you a little time to enjoy being married!
Post # 4
@Daizy914: I am not married yet- but all I can tell you is this: I have a friend (who yes, I am still close with- she is in my wedding and we have known each other since we were three) who is selfish like that. Only it’s sort of opposite. If she’s having “drama” or issues, she always wante to chat and talk and hang out (like when she was having an affiar/going through her divorce) And now, she has a baby, she’s pregnant- and I ALWAYS have to be the one to contact her. ALWAYS. There are some people that are just like that, I guess.
Maybe she feels like she is “intruding” on your newly married life- maybe you just have to tell her – hey, just because I am married doesn’t mean I don’t want my friends!
Post # 5
Nope. I talk to my MoH every day. In fact, I talk to all of my bridesmaids every day.
Post # 6
@BrandNewBride: Yes I saw her the night I got back bc I wanted to give her a gift I bought her when I was away. I mean she could just be giving me time but I mean should I say something?
@Hyperventilate: I talk to all my Bridesmaids everyday also except for this one who has kinda drifted. I call and she sometimes doesnt answer. She will twll me ill call you tomorrow and never does
Post # 7
Has she been like this always, or just since you’ve been engaged/married?