(Closed) Did/do you have BMs who dislike each other? Advice

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
373 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

I’m having the exact problem right now. My best friend is my maid of honor the reason my Fiance and I met and the only one I would ever want as my Maid/Matron of Honor. We had a rough patch and in that time my childhood friend became very close with me. So I had decided I wanted her to be my bridesmaid only problem was she hated my Maid/Matron of Honor. Totally adds a ton more stress to wedding planning I completely understand. My only advice is try not to let it bother you, its hard I know but in a weeks time I have learned that its my wedding and that if she doesnt want to get along with my Maid/Matron of Honor then thats going to be her mistake because shes not going to be as included in all of this planning and all the fun thats goes along with a wedding. She even missed my wedding dress shopping because she hates my Maid/Matron of Honor. Its so stupid so good luck to you, theres no harm in asking the worse they’ll say is NO and she’ll realize how immature they are.

Post # 5
269 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Well my little sis, who is my Maid/Matron of Honor and my best friend really dont like eachother or get along. I just told them straight out, if anybody has a problem with the other person being there, they can stay at home. Its our day(Fh and I) and if you can’t be there with us on that day, we will miss you but we will still have a great time, no need sugar coating stuff for adults.

Post # 6
24 posts
  • Wedding: August 2012

I have the exact same problem. I am having 9 bridesmaids. 2 are my family members, 3 are my bffs and 4 are FIs. My friends hate my FIs. But they have been extremeley ammicable and nice thus far. You need to remind them that the day is about you. If they care about you, they will get along for just one night. 

Bridesmaids are supposed to help out you at ease. Not add stress to your day. If they truly care about you, they will be supportive.

 Goog luck.

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