(Closed) Did/Will you do the deed on the day-of?

posted 8 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: Did/Will you have sex on your wedding night? Was it your first time?
    Yes, We DID. It was NOT our first time. : (62 votes)
    22 %
    Yes, We DID. It WAS our first time. : (16 votes)
    6 %
    Yes, We WILL, it will NOT be our first time. : (135 votes)
    49 %
    Yes, We WILL, it WILL be our first time. : (16 votes)
    6 %
    No, We DID NOT, it would NOT have been our first time. : (29 votes)
    10 %
    No, We DID NOT, it WOULD have been our first time. : (4 votes)
    1 %
    No, We WILL NOT, it would NOT be our first time. : (10 votes)
    4 %
    No, We WILL NOT, it WOULD be our first time. : (2 votes)
    1 %
    Other - As Always. :-) : (4 votes)
    1 %
  • Post # 3
    1430 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: April 2015

    Well my SO has already told me we’re definitely going to have sex on our wedding night. Apparently it will be the highlight of the evening, haha!

    Post # 4
    333 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: August 2011

    We were absolutely fully intending to.. Then we got back to our hotel and were shattered.. so we ordered room service, snuggled up in bed and watched x factor ha!! 

    I then had to get redressed in all my nice underwear the next morning so it wasn’t wasted πŸ˜‰

    Post # 5
    2492 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: July 2012

    Honestly, probably will not since I am an early bird usually and we won’t be leaving our venue until 1:30/2:00, and will be leaving early the next day. Might happen, but I doubt it.

    Post # 6
    2194 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: November 2011

    we did! At like 3 AM. We got back to the hotel, went to the after party, then went to our room, opened all of our presents, ate a ton of chocolate covered strawberries…THEN did it. LOL not our best showing, but what’s done is done!

    Post # 7
    10285 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2011

    We didn’t and it wouldn’t have been our first time. We pretty much knew going into it that sex was a slim chance on our wedding night. We figured we’d be too tired and we were right. It also didn’t help that my Brother-In-Law hung out in our bridal suite, belligerently drunk until after 3am. He even wanted to SLEEP there and started to curl up at the foot of our bed! That’s when Darling Husband practically dragged him back to his hotel room. By the time he got back, I was almost asleep since I had wanted to crash hours before. Now that I think about it, we didn’t consummate our marriage for a few days. Considering it was far from our first rodeo, neither of us thought it was that big of a deal.

    Post # 8
    835 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    Fully intended to….100%…even had my bridal wear…. we got back and we were so hungry (We didn’t get to eat at the wedding because of being pulled around). The Bridal party had snuck us some food from the reception into the mini fridge before hand and we just ate. We were starved to death and totally exhausted…. so we ate, drank some alcohol left over from the reception because we didn’t have time to do that either, people watched out of our perfect view room, then slept harder than we have ever slept. I was embarassed to tell y’all before…but now I see others day done the same thing….. We handled things the next morning Wink

    Post # 9
    1331 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: January 2012

    We did, and it was our first time. It was awful (painful), but still worth the wait for us. Hahaha. Much better now. πŸ˜‰

    Post # 10
    1618 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    No, we sure did not!  We were very tired and fell asleep very soon after we got to our hotel at the end of the night.  It was absolutely no big deal at all.  We have had plenty of sex in our time and missing our wedding night did not make us feel bad at all. 

    Post # 11
    3374 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    We did and it was a night I’ll always remember!!! I even got carried over the threshold in my wedding dress!

    Post # 12
    693 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: July 2011

    The night-of we crashed at the GM/BM’s house where we had the after-party, so it would’ve been weird to do it there. πŸ™‚  We waited til we got home the next morning.

    It would not have been the first time, although we fully INTENDED to wait until then.  After a lifetime of church building it up to be this HUGE thing, we ended up going for it a little early to ease the super intense anxiety I was feeling about it (and actually had lived with for many years).  I don’t regret the decision because the anxiety would have totally ruined the wedding day for me.

    Post # 13
    7605 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper

    We will just to say we did, haha.  It won’t be our first time.

    Post # 14
    13095 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: July 2010

    We did and it was definitely not our first time.  We did it twice in a night for the first time ever though! πŸ˜‰

    Post # 15
    1086 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    My SO and I at the moment have a highly active sexual relationship (of course just between the two of us, I’m not one of those “hip” girls down to add others into the bedroom, if I see another woman with my man, if I’m there or not, he’s getting a couple black eyes) but considering recent spiritual conflicts with my religion and this aspect of the relationship, I’m hoping very soon I will be able to be brave enough to ask for us to become celibate until the day of. The day of, all the above mentioned to the side, celibacy or not, I’m sure we wont miss that night. We don’t typically miss any night, the Wedding night especially.


    But I’m not officially engaged yet… Not officially. But guarantee of a ring very soon so hopefully I’m not completely exempt from answering the poll? πŸ™‚

    Post # 16
    119 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    We plan to! But who knows how exhausted we’ll be or not! It won’t be our first time, but I still feel like it’d be special to do it on our wedding night! πŸ™‚

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