(Closed) Did/Will you do the deed on the day-of?

posted 8 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: Did/Will you have sex on your wedding night? Was it your first time?
    Yes, We DID. It was NOT our first time. : (62 votes)
    22 %
    Yes, We DID. It WAS our first time. : (16 votes)
    6 %
    Yes, We WILL, it will NOT be our first time. : (135 votes)
    49 %
    Yes, We WILL, it WILL be our first time. : (16 votes)
    6 %
    No, We DID NOT, it would NOT have been our first time. : (29 votes)
    10 %
    No, We DID NOT, it WOULD have been our first time. : (4 votes)
    1 %
    No, We WILL NOT, it would NOT be our first time. : (10 votes)
    4 %
    No, We WILL NOT, it WOULD be our first time. : (2 votes)
    1 %
    Other - As Always. :-) : (4 votes)
    1 %
  • Post # 63
    11456 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: May 2009

    We did not, but it would have been our first time.  Because of our strong beliefs, we made a deliberate choice to do nothing but kiss each other until after the wedding, and we definitely had to take some time to overcome some awkwardness and to become a bit more comfortable around each other. I should also note that it would have been my first time ever.

    As a bride in her mid-40s, I most definitely had long been looking forward to that significant “event” for what seems like FOREVER. However, I also was so stressed and so exhausted from all kinds of logistical issues surrounding our wedding — and so disappointed that our wedding timeline totally imploded and that we never had time to greet or mingle with most of our guests etc. or dance with them — that romance and fun were not really the theme of the start to our honeymoon, lol.

    Post # 64
    100 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: November 2012

    We’ve been living together for 3 years (3.5 by the wedding- I can’t believe it has been that long!).  I’m planning on a morning “Happy Wedding Day!” Bang session followed by a 2am post-afterparty drunk session- because…well…I know us ๐Ÿ™‚  Wink


    Post # 65
    1040 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    We aren’t married yet, but I’m pretty sure we won’t do it that night. We’ve already talked about it and decided we will probably be way too tired (based on what I’ve read on the bee). He keeps saying he’s still gonna have the energy to do it and that we have to on our wedding night, but I know when it comes down to it he will crash the minute his head hits the pillow!

    Post # 66
    15 posts
    • Wedding: June 2010

    We didnt. His brother passed out on the bathroom floor of our hotel room that night since the hotel kept the bar open for our wedding party after the reception ended….but we made up for it Embarassed

    Post # 67
    370 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    I hope we will! My friend just bought me this CUTE lingerie set from the Victoria’s Secret Bridal collection which I am so excited to wear that night. The only problem is that we will probably make it to our hotel at around 11 pm and the next morning we will have to be at the airport to leave for our honeymoon at around 8 am…..so who knows, but hopefully. Honestly, I just want him to see me in my new bridal lingerie ๐Ÿ˜‰

    Post # 68
    11165 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper

    That is a negative Ghost Rider, we did not. We did not get back to our hotel until 2;30 am and didn’t get to bed until 4 am…there was no freaking way.

    Now the weekend after, that is a different story. ๐Ÿ˜‰

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