(Closed) Did/Will you talk to your spouse before wedding…

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
73 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

I have always heard it’s bad luck to see your FH on the wedding day.  I’m personally not going to see him or talk to him.  I might send him a text or something and say I’m excited and that I love him.  But, I don’t want to see him until I walk down the aisle!!!

Post # 4
653 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

It is really up to you and your fiances. I’m considering a first look but I’m not 100% sure yet. I will most definitely at least talk to him on the phone… he always says the right things to calm me down 🙂 (I know for sure I’ll be a nervous wreck!)

Post # 5
1124 posts
Bumble bee

Yes, it is ok for me and my FH. We are spending the night beforehand together, getting ready together the day of, driving to the venue together, and then he is walking me down the aisle.

Post # 6
10288 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011

It all depends on how traditional you want to be. The more traditional couples will normally not really see or talk at all before the wedding. We, on the other hand, are anything but traditonal. We’re sleeping together the night before and we’re doing a first look. So yes, I will definitely see Fiance before we say “I Do”. 

Post # 7
10367 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

We spent most of the day leading up to the wedding together, actually. It was so great! We woke up together, had breakfast in our hotel room, got ready separately, and then did 2 hours of photos just the two of us in our favorite part of San Diego. We also walked down the aisle together (we liked the connotation of us presenting ourselves to each other, instead of me being given away by my dad)

Post # 8
1940 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

We spent the night together before the wedding.  We also had a first look.  My favorite pre-wedding part of the day way having breakfast with my husband-to be though before we started the busy day of getting ready/getting married.  (The first look was my favorite part of the day.  I don’t remember my feeling during the ceremony very well, but I completely remember how I felt when I saw my husband-to-be for the first time in my wedding dress.  I loved that it was a private moment).

Post # 9
615 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I will not be seeing or talking to my Fiance on the wedding day until I meet him at the end of the aisle. I want him to be surprised when he sees me for the first time that day :-).

Post # 10
3314 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

@MuchGreater:  We slept in the same bed the night before the wedding.  🙂  It was one of his only requests and I was happy to oblige.  😛  He left that morning shortly before the hair/makeup artist was scheduled to arrive.  

Post # 11
159 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

I’m planning on seeing mine before the wedding. I’m getting ready at my parents’ with my bridesmaids and my SO and the guys are picking us up. I think I’m going to hide in a bedroom and have him go see me before I come out, I want that moment (when we see each other all dressed up) to be JUST for us. I dont know why but I feel that that moment is so personal. Also, we have our bridal pictures scheduled before the ceremony.

Post # 12
8353 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2011

I am going out with my girls the night before, and I am staying at our venue the night before with my girls, so unless I talk to him on the phone, I won’t be talking to him, and because he doesn’t want to do a first look, I won’t see him, until I walk up the aisle to him.

Post # 14
948 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

Fiance and I will probably talk the day of, before the wedding, but are not likely to see each other until I’m walking down the aisle.  FI hasn’t budged on us seeing each other before the wedding!  I thought it would be nice to get some photos before hand, but he is really stuck on having our first look be me walking down the aisle. 



Post # 16
5371 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2014 - Ontario, Canada ♥ EDD- April 2016

We’ll text I’m sure, but I don’t want to see him until I’m walking down the aisle and he feels the same way (: We really want to sleep together the night before the wedding but it might now work out logistically so we’ll see.

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