(Closed) Difficult church coordinator and a horrible meeting… advice??

posted 7 years ago in Ceremony
Post # 3
285 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

I would rely on what you have in writing. These church wedding coordinators sometimes think that they are God’s little earth bound helpers, and can be very self important. I heard horror stories about the one at my church so I’ve been kissing her butt since Day 1 to avoid any conflict, and so far so good. But I can sympathize with you on the list of restrictions for photogs. 

Just do what the sheet they gave you says. I highly doubt J will cause a commotion the day of if she sees the videographer doing something that he was told was allowed prior. Arm your photog and videographer with a copy of the rules you were given, so they can whip them out and show J if she tries to start anything. And then stop worrying about it. Let them deal with her, they’re professionals who have probably encountered this type of woman at other churches.  Don’t let it stress you out. 

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