(Closed) Difficulties with friend

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
12247 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2013

@DZT23:  Cut back on wedding talk with her, and hang out with her less until the wedding’s over!

Post # 4
49 posts
  • Wedding: September 2013

@brandnewbride +1


Definitely cut back on the wedding talk. Unfortunately, weddings do bring the crazies. I had a situation as well with a friend that just made it all about her and if there is one thing I wish I had done earlier was to not include her. You’re not a bad friend for thinking that at all. Just slowly fade out the wedding talk and keep it on a need to know basis…as in, she doesn’t need to know anything.

Post # 5
2564 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

I have a friend who I just stopped talking wedding with altogether once she made a couple of suggestions on what my Fi should wear and the length of the slit in my dress.  O_o

Post # 7
510 posts
Busy bee

I understand that its very annoying to you -- but try to see it from her perspective too. I doubt shes trying to one-up you. Shes trying to get involved in the only way she knows how because she cares about you and your special day. Honestly, do you think shell interrupt the speeches or is it her way of making a joke in an attemt to keep things light? Is communicating loudly the only way she really knows how?

Try and get her involved in lighter parts of the wedding — like the bachelorette or shopping for smaller favours!

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