- 1 month ago
- Wedding: May 2018
Need some advice as it’s cutting me really deep.
My soon to be SIL and I fell out some time ago, we just didn’t see eye to eye and we then had a heated argument. I said and did some things I was not proud of for which I have apologised countless times. I also made several attempts during the year following the incident to fix the problem all attempts were ignored and I didn’t get any sort of response. That Christmas I got a text from her asking me to meet her to clear the air, I went straight away and we sat down and talked it all out, hugged, wished eachother a merry Christmas and went on our way- since this, she has gone cold with me and my partner again. Won’t even say hello to us and is just plain rude.
She is marrying my BIL in May this year, they initially only invited me to the evening reception but have since revised my invite to include me in the day but I’m just feeling so bad about it, almost like it was one final jab at me to invite me to the evening and then alter it after.
I’ve tried reaching out again since this happened, I’ve been so polite and just been ignored again.
Mother-In-Law is trying to make me go to the wedding as well as mutual friends but I’m so nervous, I just feel so hurt.
I’m really worried I’ll be made to look an idiot if me and my partner aren’t sat together, I get left out of family photos, I’m even anxious down to whether she will rebut me when I try to be nice as they do the greetings prior to the wedding dinner (if that makes sense).
ANY ADVICE WELCOME !!!