Dilemma!

posted 1 month ago in Ceremony
Post # 2
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  • Wedding: June 2018

I am sorry you are dealing with this. It’s definitely a tough situation and I understand how you may feel uncomfortable. It is definitely wrong of her to continue making jabs at you when you apologized multiple times, but she is just not being the bigger person. I would suggest you go to the wedding for two reasons 1. You can be the bigger person and show that you care and want to be there for her big day and 2. If you don’t go to the wedding it will only make things worse and your relationship may never be fixed.

It is hard without knowing the situation or her to really say how it will turn out, but just go and enjoy yourself. Hang out with the people that welcome you, if you don’t sit with your partner (which would be crazy) just remember the dinner is a small part of the wedding, you really only need to sit down to eat and than you can get up and dance again. Also remember, it’s her big day, you may think people are talking about you and looking at you, but there will be so much going on that people won’t realize.

Just take a deep breath and enjoy yourself 🙂 it will all be okay!

Post # 4
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  • Wedding: June 2018

lucybrooks88 :  You’re welcome!! Don’t let anxiety win! Who knows, you may go and everything will completely fine!

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