- 7 years ago
I am in the midst of choosing my Maid/Matron of Honor and I am having a dilemma. I have a friend I have know since childhood, and one that I roomed with when I was away at college. I want my college friend to be the Maid/Matron of Honor as she was there for me at some of the best and worst points in my life that really brought us close together. I used to be very close to the childhood friend but I feel that we’ve grown apart over the last few years and she’s said some things to me over the past year that were very hurtful. I still want her in the wedding party, just not as Maid/Matron of Honor. I am worried her feelings will be hurt when I tell her I’ve chosen the other girl. I guess what I’m asking is how to go about telling my childhood friend that my college friend will be the MOH? Should I explain the reasoning or just leave it?