(Closed) Dilemma- bachelorette party or time with FH in LDR?

posted 7 years ago in Long Distance Relationships
  • poll: What would you do?
    bachelorette party : (9 votes)
    90 %
    stay with FH one more night : (1 votes)
    10 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    714 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: July 2010

    Hopefully this party is a once in a lifetime opportunity, hanging out with your Boyfriend or Best Friend is not.  You can hang with him most weekends.  I think it is more important to celebrate your friend, no matter the state of your friendship. 

    Post # 4
    Member
    14496 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2011

    Not to take Fiance for granted for being there all the time, but there is always another weekend to just hang out with him.  Choosing the bachelorette party doesnt make him less important, its a one time event for your friend, so exceptions can be made.  I think its good to have some balance and not drop everything for a SO *all* the time.  If it was just hanging out with the girls just for fun, then I would maybe say see your Fiance.

    Post # 5
    Hostess
    16213 posts
    Honey Beekeeper

    I agree with previous posters. In a few months, or a few years, when you look back, you’ll want to have an array of memories, both with your guy and with your girlfriends. Because this is a special event in your friends life, it’s worth sacrificing a single night with the man you get to spend the rest of your life with!

    Trust me, I know it’s hard. My husband and I were in an LDR for four years, seeing each other only every few weeks. So I know just how you feel. But I think it’ll be worth it. 🙂

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