(Closed) DILEMMA!!! Just saw my BFF's secret ering….and she will HATE it

posted 6 years ago in Rings
Post # 77
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

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@Crystalchild23:  ugh. Wow. I can’t believe that was his response to her sister!!! All of the guys I know who’s girlfriends have sister they brought them there to pick out the ring. Let us know if she likes it when she gets it

Post # 78
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

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@Crystalchild23:  i agree with you. you have reached the end of that road. his sister brought up her concerns and he addressed them. so its not as if no one said anything to him. i think if you had managed to get into a conversation with him after his sister had said something it may not have been received very well. perhaps on their one year anniversary, she can pick a band that she likes herself? i just hope she doesnt do what a friend of mine did and ‘lose’ the ring….

Post # 79
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2016

@Crystalchild23:  I would show your friend some pictures of rings, and make this one of the rings. See what her thoughts are about it. If she still hates it then I would bring up my concerns with him.

Post # 79
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

Update?

Post # 80
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2007 - City, State

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Crystalchild23:  Update please??? He probably proposed by now. Wondering what your friend said about her ring????

Post # 82
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

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Crystalchild23:  Phew! I’m so glad that it looks better in person and that she seems to like it. Thank you so much for updating us!

Post # 83
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Newbee

This was like reading a good book. I was like “tell him, please tell him!!!” and then how it ended with your friend rolling her eyes and saying you “spazzed out” about it. How great is that? You should save this thread somehow and show her once she has really learned to love her ring. I think she would get a kick out of it! So great! 🙂

Post # 84
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Newbee

I told my Fiance I really really want a yellow gold, simple, delicate one stone solitaire.. Long story short, this is what he chose for me (three stone – round center with baguettes) and pave on all the sides.. 

I 100% adore it!!!

It’s even more beautiful IRL

I simply didn’t have all the data at the time and “felt” like I knew what I wanted when, in fact, I just wasn’t familiar with any other type of engagement jewelry (in my country everyone has yellow gold solitaires). My Fiance is a USC… he knows his stuff 🙂

 

 

 

Post # 85
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Blushing bee

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sillythinglove:  I see this happen a lot.  A close friend of mine chose a ring that went against what his Fiance liked.  To this day, she remarks how glad she is that he went against her wishes.

Post # 86
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Newbee
  • Wedding: October 2014 - le parker meridien

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HappymrsM:  completely agree! 

and most of all, this ‘book’ shows how much Crystalchild adores her BFF / knows her / cares for her. ugh it’s all the best and truest things about BFF love and an accurate representation of men being men. ha. but glad it ended happily!

Post # 87
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

nvm.

  • This reply was modified 6 years, 1 month ago by  Overjoyed.

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