(Closed) Dilemna with where groomsmen stay

posted 9 years ago in Grooms/men
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee

I’m impressed you are okay with any house guests, let alone a full house of them.  And I’m shocked that people would assume they could stay with you.  My Maid/Matron of Honor is staying the night before the wedding with me, but everyone else is staying somewhere else.

Tell the Groomsmen that the house is full, and see if he could stay with the best man.  

Post # 4
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6572 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 2010

i agree with texasmeredith, there will be no guests with us any time near the wedding. there’s enough going on, and people should realize that.

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2009

You will have enough to think about with the wedding plus your family staying at your house. It is rude of them to assume and your Fiance needs to get on the phone and tell them he heard a rumor and explain that your house is already packed. He could suggest the other GMs house or a nearby hotel.

I originally had me plus 4 girlfriends staying in my suite the wedding weekend. I ended up hooking 2 of the girls up with some other girlfriends coming to the wedding and they all stayed together in the room next to us. It worked out really well with just me and my 2 besties! Zero stress and zero drama!

Post # 6
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2781 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

The fact he assumed and didn’t ask you or your FH would send me into a rage at him. You need to sort this out fast. Really it should be your FH who talks to him as it’s his groomsman but you need to sort it out with your FH and then with your groomsman. And by doing this to one I think you’ll lay down the law for any of the others who’re assuming the same. 

Post # 7
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908 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2009

I think you should get your Fiance to call him and explain that you guys have a full house.  I don’t think guys realize how stressful house guests can be.

Post # 8
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610 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

Can you ask the best man to see if he can accomodate the groomsmen? You’ve a right to be upset but sometimes guys just don’t think. In case the groomsmen don’t know the best man very well, it may be helpful for you to ask the best man.

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