- 3 months ago
Mariposies123 : If it’s not going to hurt your financial future, I think you should enjoy the process. It is his wedding too and he should be able to enjoy it. I am 100% a believer in planning for the future, but it should not be to the detriment of the present. Since this is a one-time splurge, I’d say enjoy it.
What is of more importance is if you are on the same page financially otherwise. Have you discussed your financial plans and goals and priorities? If not you should do that know and make sure you can agree on plans, goals and priorities.
Even if you do not agree on every minute detail, both of you should come to an agreement that will help you maintain a sense of security and financial well-being.