(Closed) Disappointed in one of my bridesmaid

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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1513 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@candykiss: ” She was able to find $200 for a dress for the other wedding, and the other bachelorette is going to be at a club in the city, which I know she didn’t plan as this other girl’s bridesmaid did

i know its really hard not to, but you cant compare the other bach party to yours, since as you said, she didnt plan it and probably had no control over the cost of it, regardless of her finances. ETA: also, same goes for the dress. unless the bride said they could wear any dress they wanted, she had little choice in the matter.

have you tried reaching out to her about helping/being more involved with your wedding? are there DIY things she can help with to get in the loop without having to spend money?

Post # 5
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1212 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I’d involve her as much as she wants to be involved. Can you split with your sis and other Bridesmaid or Best Man and still do the hotel room and have a blast with the girls that are genuinely showing interest?

Focus on the fact that you have two people who are really involved and excited for you, that’s great!

Post # 6
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1736 posts
Bumble bee

If I were in your shoes, I would spend some one-on-one time with the girl in question. There might be stuff going on that you are unaware of or it might just help for her to spend some time with you that is unrelated to wedding planning. She is likely overloaded with all this wedding stuff and it will probably be much appreciated if you reached out and just wanted to spend time with her. It might make a difference!

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