(Closed) Disappointed with this group

posted 3 years ago in Weddingbee
Post # 2
903 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2017

So don’t post.  But making a post about having no desire to post is probably going to draw you more negative attention. 


There is really no reason to lie about details.  If you are leaving out names and not posting photos of yourself, chances are no one will recognize you.

Post # 3
402 posts
Helper bee

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bellaT2017 :  I’ve been on WB for going on 8 years now, and I feel like the tone has changed somewhat since the early days. There are some lovely Bees on here who have given me great advice or have just been willing to let me vent, so this is in no way a knock against everyone. I have noticed, though, that there’s less tolerance for those of us who just need to get things off our chest, even when we clarify in our posts that we just need to vent. I also feel like there’s less tolerance when we ask questions. In other words, there’s more snap-judgments about why I’d be asking such a quesiton, rather than giving me the benefit of the doubt that I’m just looking for advice on a subject that might be new or uncomfortable for me.

I so value having WB as a resource, so I hope we can all be mindful that we’re here to help each other. Sure, we’ll debate, because we have strong opinions on subjects and a wide range of topics get brought up, but the underlying purpose of our interactions should be to keep this place as a resource and refuge.

That said, to those of you who have been kind, open, honest, direct, and helpful, I can’t thank you enough. I’ve had so many incidents in my life that have left me feeling at a loss, and being able to come here has done so much good.

Post # 4
3448 posts
Sugar bee

I’m going to go ahead and close this thread add it violates our TOS which you can read about here:

Terms and Conditions of Service

v. Please refrain from baiting. Baiting is the act of encouraging responses or replies in order to cause dissent or discord; to instigate participation in a negative way.”

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