(Closed) Disappointing weekend

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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1641 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

OK, first off, I would suggest that if his mother says something again, as sweetly as you possibly can, tell her that you are very anxious and talking about it fills yo uwith anxiety. Say it in a nice way, not a biotchy one. Because her doing that is definitely not helpful.

Second, I found the BEST thing to do while waiting is to KEEP BUSY! Find something outside of your relationship that makes you happy- take a class, go out with girlfriends, learn a craft, whatever. Put your focus somewhere else. It will not only help you focus elsewhere, but it will show your soon to be Fiance that you are not totally wrapping yourself around him, and most men seem to hate it when women are solely focused on them, or the engagement.

Post # 4
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5657 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 2012

I totally know how you feel. It’s especially torture when you KNOW he has the ring but for some reason you can’t fathom, he hasn’t proposed yet. All I can suggest is try to keep your mind occupied with something else as much as possible. I agree with the PP that you should nicely tell your SO’s mother to stop bringing it up.

I really hope you won’t have to wait until April! Good luck!

Post # 6
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1641 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

I’m sure she will. Just tell her that you are having a hard time focusing on other things so you’d appreciate it if she wouldn’t bring it up and promise to tell her as soon as it happens!

Post # 7
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3303 posts
Sugar bee

I hope he is planning something very romantic and makes the wait seem like nothing!

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