(Closed) Disappointment..

posted 5 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2017 - Bristol zoo

I’m sorry sweety! It must have been really hard to hear. How did the previous talks go, if you don’t mind me asking?

 

I was also thinking that a proposal wasn’t horrifically far away after a promising talk or two. But recent throwaway comments have made me realise otherwise, it sucks so I totally understand the disappointment <3 I can only really blame myself though. Hope you feel a little better soon, perhaps another non-confrontational non-pressuring talk is in order? (After he’s had some time to think)

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2017 - Bristol zoo

men sure can be strange… I can totally understand why your hopes were raised, guess he was talking more abstractly than you (which sucks).

 

on my end there hasn’t been a whole heap of wedding talk (we haven’t been together super long). But I did ask in January as we were planning for me to move in which I am uncomfortable doing for too long without being at least engaged, he told me that he had been thinking about it and actually had a plan. Super exciting, I figured we were on for this year maybe. I’ve moved in now and he’s been talking about in the future saving money to take me on holiday and applying for part time accountancy jobs while he finishes his course. I just kind of realised that the plan he has probably involves getting that job first or something similar. so the plan coming to fruitition is a lot further off than I had kind of hoped, which sucks but I can’t really blame him for being more sensible than me at this stage 🙂 trying to wait till our 3rd anni to seriously talk again – probably need to join the SIUP lol

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