Discussion: Would it be ok if your SO masturbates to pictures of your friends?

posted 3 years ago in Relationships
Post # 76
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: January 2015

Hell no!!!

Post # 77
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2015 - Hotel Ballroom

This would be a ‘no’ for me.

Post # 78
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

Omg.. No, no, no.. NO..

I would probably not be able to look at my husband the same ever again if he were up to this type of shit.. Its just so personal (and icky).

Post # 79
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2017

chachamaru :  ARGHHH no WAY would I be ok about that?? That is just wrong on so many levels!! 😱😦

 

Post # 80
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2017 - Mississauga Convention Centre

Not ok. I would end our relationship immediately

Post # 81
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Helper bee

I don’t consider it cheating, but ew. Not okay.

Post # 82
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2020

dodobee :  I agree an disagree with you. I would like to add perspective of being ‘that girl’ i used to model iv had people tell me they did that to my photos and am fine with it, however if it had ever been someone who i was friends with their gf id lose respect for them. and if i was the girl whose partner was going that and the girls in said photos were my friends and not strangers we’d never meet i would have a problem with that. There is nothing wrong with posting sex pics, nothing wrong with using sexy pics the problem is using pics of people you both know imo.

Post # 83
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: City, State

I wouldn’t call it cheating but I would call it weird as shit.

Its a hard no for me.

Post # 84
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Bumble bee

That is gross!

Post # 85
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2020

LittleDove :  thats so fucked up the power play of “you can block me but not stop me” is so predatory omg im sorry

Post # 86
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2016

ktsteimel :  Clothed women I think is a fetish some porns sites have things like clothed female nude male porn.. idk I don’t get it but hey to each their own. 

That being said please don’t masturbate to photos of my friends. lol I feel like I shouldn’t even have to ask that. I mean if he needs an emotional connection to someone to get off then he can use photos of h is gf, or why not like a character from a film he feels close to? Just… not my friends mmk? Or hell even old friends of his or something maybe??

Post # 87
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Bumble Beekeeper

chachamaru :  

Masturbates using pictures of my/our friends?  Good God no!

Post # 88
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2017

chachamaru :  ew hell no thats so creepy and weird. soo basically he wants to screw your friends? i dont think. not okay

Post # 89
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2016 - Theater

While it’s not in my power to stop them, I’d probably be out the door with all the nopes because that’s just too damn weird.

I’ve had a friend do this to me. It was so uncomfortable when he casually told me. We’re not friends anymore because friends don’t creep on friends, people.

Post # 90
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Bee Keeper

chachamaru :  I would totally NOT be okay with it. I would be even more NOT OKAY with his ‘if you don’t like it, that’s your problem’ attitude, total dealbreaker IMO.

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