(Closed) Disgruntled maidsposted 9 years ago in Bridesmaids
- 9 years ago
- Wedding: May 2013
I’m in the minority here but, speaking as a former bridesmaid, if my dress and shoes were covered for me I’d have no problem paying for my hair if you asked me to. Maybe it’s not “etiquette” but I think that being ungrateful is worse etiquette. I don’t understand why we can expect them to buy a dress, but expecting them to get their hair done is ridiculous. Who made this rule?
Etiquette may say that you should pay, but I think after what you’ve done to absorb costs you have a right to be a little irked that they’re making a fuss about hair. (BTW- My wedding is at noon and I found a salon to go to with no time worries … maybe you can find some “options” for them in the area so it’s less you telling them they have to see a specific person? Would that smooth things over?)
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