(Closed) Disinterested Bridesmaids – and her expectations!

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
10287 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011

Considering you still have more than 9 months until your wedding, I wouldn’t worry about this for a while. Anything can happen in that amount of time. Their relationship could change and they could get back together or she could find someone else and start dating them. My wedding is a few weeks before yours and I’m certainly not stressing over these types of details yet. 

Post # 4
502 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

I am sorry but I kind of disagree with pp. I’m very cut and dry though so maybe not the best person for tactful advice. I would tell her exactly what you suggested. Having an extra person there isn’t free. It isn’t even cheap. And you can’t pay $80 for some random person who isn’t even in a stable relationship with her. They will have 364 other nights to be together while not on your dime. 

Post # 5
9053 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2010

I think the date situation is a problem you could put on the back burner.  A lot can change in 10 months.  Maybe they’ll be back together officially, maybe they’ll no longer be speaking… who knows.  You have some time to let the situation hopefully resolve itself. 



Post # 7
743 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

Did you talk directly to your sister about this issue? You could have a little chat with her and in the same time tell her that you are not really satisfied about her attitude as a bridesmaid.

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