(Closed) Dislike Best Man?

posted 10 years ago in Grooms/men
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

Oh no! I’m sorry to hear that. I wouldn’t want to trade my best men for anything at all, they’re like brothers to me!

Post # 4
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2009

That’s terrible! How does your FH feel about it? I’m sorry it’s stressful!

I really like our Bridesmaid or Best Man, he’s my FFIL! FH didn’t have enough *close* friends to match the 4 BMs I wanted, and we wanted symmetry (I’m ocd, leave me alone :P), so he asked his dad. He was really honored, so it worked out great! Tho I find it amusing I get to put my Future Father-In-Law in a fuchsia tie, he’s so totally not the type to ever wear pink!

Post # 5
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Sugar bee

OH no.  So sorry.  I think I would be more concerned about getting him out of the house.  He seems pretty ungrateful and immature.  I would have a talk with Fiance about that one.

Sorry, I’m not in your shoes. I liked my husband’s best man.  I would think just letting it go would be best.  Maybe have your Fiance proof read his toast before giving it.  That’s about it.

Hopefully when he gets on his own two feet, he’ll learn somethings and become more likeable.  But I would want him out of my home and not freeloading.  Good luck.

Post # 6
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Newbee

 Wow! If I were you, I’d let him know that once the ring is on, he’s out! It’s not like you need him to help you make rent, since he isn’t paying! Once he’s out, you and your FH/DH will be able to have more money for a bigger home, a family, remodeling, etc. In the mean time, since he’s your FH’s Bridesmaid or Best Man already, I’d bite the bullet. However, your FH needs to know how you feel, and he needs to pre-read the BM’s speech.

 Starting off with 3 people in a new marriage = not a good idea. That is precious time for you and your Hubby, not his freeloading bro!

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