Post # 17
@cyndistar3: your amazing.
As for the guy….um not nice. But I will tell you Ive pulled the trench coat lingere thing before and he was beyond clueless. Seriously is a must to just walk in and drop the coat. And as another poster said I would have gotten all pissy and gone to bed…it really works… or slapped him and left but im mean and overemotional.
Try again on a less crappy day. He is lucky to have a SO that thought of sex as a cheer up.
Post # 18
I would’ve shrugged it off and had sex anyway. Was it really THAT much of a mood killer?
Post # 19
I agree with teaandtoast, for most men sex is an ego boost, but when they feel they don’t “deserve it” ie, after not getting a promotion, then they probably don’t want it. He probably just wanted a quite night on the couch rather than hot and sweaty sex.
A quite night on the couch means that he can process what happened and think about the next step. Sex would not allow him this thinking time.
That and he probably took his disappointment out on you which he shouldn’t have done but you can understand why he did.