(Closed) Dissapointed again ((sigh))

posted 8 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
82 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

Try not to let depression win! I’ve been through that same exact scenario. My guy said to me. “When I come up for my visit, lets get this ring shopping thing out of the way.” He gets here and just like that he disregarded the whole thing. He later tells me to send him photos of 4 different styles of rings and my ring size. So, technically we never went ring shopping. But, that was a very frustrating day. I hid my true feelings and disappointment as well. They really don’t have a clue sometimes.

On the flip side of things, I am anticipating what his pick is going to be! Maybe that could be an option for you as well, send him photos of what you want and your ring size. My guy did tell me that he preferred to shop alone <rolling eyes>

Post # 4
1313 posts
Bumble bee


That really sucks, sorry to hear 🙁

I keep telling myself…. it’s going to happen sooner or later so try not to rush or worry about it!

It’s hard not to want it RIGHT NOW. Patience is a virtue, I am discovering. It sure isn’t easy.

I am trying to let him take his time, but it’s starting to get incredibly frustrating!!

Post # 5
1067 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I’m so sorry to hear your dissapointment. You know actions speak louder than words so if he has a habit of telling you something and not doing it then I would just stop taking him seriously about ring shopping until he’s the one initiating the trip to the jewelry shop. This should not have to be a stressful event.

Post # 6
603 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

I agree with KIKI82. Besides, ummm it does NOT take all day to ring shop..I went to several different stores and it took 2 hours TOPS. Sorry he is being a brat!! Hopefully he will be taking you (for real) very very soon! Have fun in Vegas (let me know how chilly it is..Ill be going at the end of the month) and try not to let “engagement brain” take over!!

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