Post # 1
So the thing is, my school is having this party and I´m organizing it, my best friend along with everyone else agree to do it in certain place with a certain amount of tickets, we´re 37 and each one of us should sell 5 tickets.The party is in two weeks, and I´m leavin to Mexico with my best friend and other friends till two days before the party, so the tickets should be sold before I´m gone you know.
So today I write them a facebook inbox, telling them that I need the money and that stuff and suddenly she (my best friend) tells me that she is not going, cuz she´s not, get this, “feeling it” and she thinks is a waste of money. I´m really dissapointed, I had been with her the entire school time, and I´m a good friend! I know I am cuz I support her everytime and help her everytime she need something, I´m always there for her and sometimes I feel she´s never there for me. She knows how important this is for me and still is acting like she doesn´t care. I´m really really dissapointed, cuz I feel that every time she need something I´ve been there, I make sacrifes for her but suddenly she´s not there for me. And is not just the fact that she´s not going to the party, cuz I can understand, after all I´m not a party girl either, is the fact that she didn´t told me when everything was starting, she decided to wait until the very end when I really need the money and the tickets, cuz if we don´t sell the tickets I will be in debt.
I´m really really dissapointed and I donpt know what to do or how to act, as I told you before I´m leaving to Mexico this wednesday with her and don´t get me wrong she´s a good friend and all…but sometimes I feel she doesn´t act good with me, she´s so negative sometimes. I donpt know I guess I´m confused.
So if any of you have any piece of advice for me, it is more than welcome!
Post # 3
I would honestly sit her down and have a long heart to heart with her. If you feel she isn’t being too good of a friend, you definitely need to tell her. If she treats you bad and it goes unnoticed by her, then it is always going to be that way. I can understand if she just didn’t have the funds, but she should have told you about it before she brought it up. That was pretty crappy of a thing to do to a best friend, and she definitely needs to know that this affected you!
Post # 4
Update: Well I went with her to Mexico, and well I came back even more dissapointed, the fisrt nigth she gets drunk (or acts like it) and I was really annoyed, and well she just act bad the whole trip. The worst thing was that one day she was so drunk she didn´t notice she was getting burned with a motorcycle, I was asleep and she feels it was OK to wake me up yelling and calling someone. Then she was upset with everyone in the room, because she was on pain…I mean I´ve been friends with her since I remmembered, and now that we came back home, she tells me I was like in a bad mood the holw trip, thank God there was my other friend telling her I´m not used to treat with drunk people, so I tell her I don´t like drunk people, that´s the reason I don´t get drunk!…things are getting better, but still is something there, I can´t bring myself to tell her cuz I know she thinks she done the rigth thing. Finally I was able to pay the event, but it was a huge effort and I suffer a lot. I guess thats the worst thing, she knew that was important to me and she didn´t care, she just give me this lame excuse…Idk, I´m confused.
I’m still her friend and all, but I don´t know if things will be totally normal for us agai, how can I be sure she will be there for me, when something bigger comes?? I guess thats why I´m so stress about it, cuz if she didn´t notice, or worst didn´t care about this special thing, what would she be with something more special….
Thanks for the help thougth, is just that I´m still very confused.