- 5 years ago
Well. If I can call her that anymore.
I have a few friends I have known for about 20 years. One I call my little sister. I was her witness at her wedding =) I love her very much and this is not about her.
It’s about her sister.
In the years since highschool, she went from a cause head hippy, supporting equal rights, reproductive choice, just an all around liberal.
She had a daughter outside of marriage. I always call her daughter our super hero baby because she literally saved her mother from cervical cancer. If she had not went to get the prenatal check up, she never would have found out she had cervical cancer.
Before her first check up she out right asked me when and where and how much for an abortion at our local clinic. I had been there before for a D&C after a miscarriage and we all know D&C’s are abortions. Anyway.
Anyway. She dated exclusively women for years after her daughter was born. Then she met a guy, fell in “love”, ran away and married him against everyones wishes and frankly didn’t tell anyone. Not even her family.
Not so big a deal except this guy have her an STD you can get rid of. He’s a drug addict, drinks too much while taking those pain pills for his back “injury”. Yeah he fell down a small flight of stairs ten years ago and didn’t even have soft tissue damage. But he NEEDS to pop 4 of those 30mg loritabs every three hours. While drinking. And he has cheated on her no less than 6 times in their 4 year marriage.
He has had no job that I know of in 5 years. He sits on his ass playing video games ALL FUCKING DAY. I can’t say he isnt a good Dad. He is great to her first daughter and now their second daughter.
Now my free flying friend is an adamant christian to the point of preaching on FB. routinly calls me a fag enabaler when my logic in responding to her arguments on my facebook posts gets to be too much for her.
She posted on my timeline about praying for me so I would not go to hell for killing my baby ten years ago.
I had a D&C not an abortion. Not that to me anyway abortion is murder. I don’t think that at all. But apparently to her D&C means abortion.
I’ve invested 20 years into this friendship. She has changed so much in the last 5 years I have no idea what to do.