(Closed) Disturbed by a dream about another guy!

posted 8 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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2007 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

Ugh.  I hate having realistic dreams like that.  Especially when the mood hangs with you after you wake up and just won’t go away.  That’s not a situation I’ve been in so I can’t say exactly but I’ve had other dreams that leave me feeling similarly terrible but I just don’t put a lot of store by them.  If you think you might be having second thoughts, more so than just cold feet, then you might want to look into it but I would probably tell myself it was a bad dream and try to leave it at that.

Post # 6
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2681 posts
Sugar bee

I have had dreams about other guys while I have been engaged and married!  Most of the time they are guys I dont know or a celebrity but I have had a couple that are about guys I do know.  In my dream (I just had one last night!), I am always married but still have feelings for the other guy.  Embarassingly enough, my dream last night was about the guy that plays Mr Shuester on Glee, he was my boss and I really liked him and we were flirting and all I wanted to do was kiss him.  I knew even in my dream I still had a husband and felt guilty about it.  I woke up feeling guilty even though it was about something that would never happen.

Post # 8
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2007 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

I thing a talk with your therapist is just the thing.  Maybe they can help you straighten out how you feel about it?  And you’re not the only one.  I’ve definitely had dreams where I’ve wanted someone other than my husband (and still knew I was married in the dream) although it’s never gone as far as wanting to get away from him. 

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