(Closed) Divorce on Weddingbee

posted 8 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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2742 posts
Sugar bee

Ouch. Haven’t read it. Will come back and let you know.

Post # 4
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2007 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

I’ve wondered that as well.  I’m fairly certain there have been but can’t think of who else off the top of my head.

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

I actually wondered about this as well. Just because I saw Ms Candy Corns post and then I looked up bast bloggers – there are 1 or 2 that called off their wedding or got a divorce (I believe) so I was curious about all the rest.

Post # 7
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

@One2-Three4: actually rainbow just said they are not planning a wedding but they are still planning to get married – she just didnt want to deal with the drama of a wedding

Post # 8
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2011

Miss Sanddollar (I think) talked about how this is her 2nd wedding and she was actually a “Real Wedding” bride for her first wedding a few years ago. Also Mrs. Nachos was an encore. So I guess I don’t know about any blogged marriages failing… but I do think that the topic has been discussed by a few. 

Post # 9
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I’m not sure the 40% statistic applies to the first year or 2 or 3….I’m not sure, but I would have thought it would be lower for newlyweds these days?

Post # 10
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

Did this thread disappear for a while or am I crazy?

Post # 11
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18643 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

Hmm, I’m sure that a lot of Bees feel ashamed that their relationship ended in divorce.  We probably don’t hear about board bees who get divorces since most of them seem to disappear after their wedding.  I’m glad that Candy Corn was brave enough to be honest about something that does happen, even though people on Weddingbee don’t really talk about it much.

Post # 12
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

My fiance is divorced. He was married before I met him and in the process of divorcing when we started dating. I wonder if that puts me at a higher or lower risk, lol!

It was a short, but I gather passionate, marriage that ended after they were unhappy together for some time and tried to work things out through therapy, but it just wasn’t working. My fiance is a difficult, emotional (but lovely) person and it sounds as if the exwife was another one of the same with a healthy dose of immaturity and depression mixed in and the combination was endless fighting.

I have no doubt in my mind that we’ll stick it out through a lot of bad times and good times. I have no delusion that spending my life with him will all be easy, but I know I am a better person with his support and he with mine.

I don’t think people like to talk about their divorces because it’s probably depressing, but we are all human. We make mistakes and sometimes we change. When choosing a partner, it’s important to remember those 2 things and be prepared for what may come. I plan to love and support him no matter who he becomes or what errors he makes (as long as he continues to put our best interests as a team first and tries his hardest to be a good partner) and it’s something we’ve talked about.

Post # 13
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Worker bee

I know this is super old and not the most fun topic but I am curious about this. My best friend is going through a divorce and reading/hearing about divorces would help me give better advice I think- especially because the bees feel like friends after a while. 

Post # 14
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Blushing bee

@MarriedinMay:  I agree, I’d be curious to hear as well. I found the bee when I was planning my wedding a few years ago…I’m now divorced and back around since I’m dating a wonderful new man 🙂

Post # 15
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

We should talk about divorce. I wish more ladies would be frank about it. It’s all Darling Husband when things are going well. What about when they aren’t?

Post # 16
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Worker bee

I agree. I’d like to hear about the good times as well as the bad times. I know it’s harder to be public about that though. I think hearing a bit more about divorce/separation from bees willing to write about it would make things feel more “real.”

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