Post # 1
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Honey bee
My mom is making me mad… today she had the nerve to ask me how much of the wedding my dad was paying for even though she isn’t, and had no intention of helping at all. I am not counting on anyone to help pay for anything me and my fiance are paying for it ourselves (hence the very low budget) but she just goes out of her way to make my dad look like crap. it is so annoying! So i basically told her she has no right complaining about him not helping out with the wedding unless she helps with the wedding herself…
Post # 3
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Bee Keeper
Awww what a crappy time for your mom to put you in the middle of their problems! I agree with what you told her.
Post # 4
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Helper bee
oh man i am going through that too but with my dad he is like what is your mom paying for….and well he always have to do better. so my fav. answer is i dont know. I hate family drama….and there is plenty in mine. Even when my dad walks me down i want my mom to be up there to to give me a way and my dad goes she has no business being up there….ugh…hopefully after the wedding it will get better for you!
Post # 5
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Honey bee
after the wedding i will be moving with my husband to wherever he gets based and it will most likely be far from both of them then i won’t have to deal with their drama LOL
Post # 6
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Busy bee
We’ve gotten a bit of this drama too, with more likely to come as we get closer to the event. Odd isn’t it, how the one who isn’t contributing wants to know how much the other is spending?
Post # 7
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Honey bee
It is so ridiculous! it has always been a battle of who has done more and frankly it is my dad! she likes to think she has done so much for me but in reality the only thing she has really given/ taught me is how NOT to be a parent…. I love her but she is immature and selfish
