(Closed) DIY Reception decoration help!

posted 5 years ago in Reception
Post # 3
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

If you limit the reception decorations to centerpieces and candles, you can ask a close friend to place them for you. Have everything ready to go with instructions and a photo for reference so the end result is what you want.

If you want head table or sweetheart table dcor, again, keep it simple and it won’t take very long.

As far as serving the toast, who is serving the rest of the reception? Can you ask them to serve the toast?

Post # 4
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14496 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

Welcome to the Hive! Do you have a friend getting married that you could act as each others coordinators? You could hire an interior design student from a local community college. Or put an ad on Craigslist with what you are willing to pay. There are a ton of options out there as long as you are organized, it really will not be that hard to find someone to do it.  I took pics before hand of how everything was to be set up, that helped a lot.

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

I wasn’t able to set up a lot of our reception decorations.  I set up a mock table at home earlier in the week and took pics, then showed my Darling Husband, mom and Maid/Matron of Honor.  They were able to explain everything to the setup people and it went great!  We did table runners down each table with tealights scattered along it and the glass stones.  The center of each table had a vase of fresh flowers on top of a mirror with more stones.  It was simple and easy to do and it looked great. 

Post # 6
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@alarragoitiy34:  I literally have the exact same issue!  It’s the one thing that I’m most worried about, actually, haha.  

Our venue is set up kind of odd, in an awesome old building just like yours.  When you walk in, you immediately go up a flight of stairs to a landing where you can either go left or right, up another small set of stairs.  The room to the left is gorgeous, with old wood floors.  This is where we are getting married, having the DJ, and hoping everyone hangs out in.  The room to the right has the bathrooms, the bar, and will have the food.

After the ceremony, everyone will migrate to the other room for food and drinks, while a majority of the chairs will need to be broken down and a few round tables (including my DIY centerpieces) will need to be set up.  

I worry that it won’t look how I want it because I won’t be doing it, but it can’t be that hard, really!

The wife of one of our groomsmen has offered to help and I asked her to be our “day-of-coordintator”  I don’t plan to pay her because she offered, but I do plan to include her in the program and also get her a gift like I am my bridesmaids, because she will be saving me a butt-load of money and I appreciate her kind offer. I plan to take some photos and give her a clipboard checklist.  Also, my MOH’s husband has volunteered for breaking down the chairs and setting up the tables.  I am not sure if our photographer wants to take photos with the whole wedding party right after, but if not, then they will be helping, too.

I say, use your wedding party, or other trusted friends to help.  It’s important to have a clear vision and just be able to communicate that to whoever you get to help, even use photos if that will help you feel like it will be done how you want. 

Another thing is the decor in the ceremony room will be versitile enough to leave up for the reception.  I wouldn’t worry too much about trying to completely transform the room between the two, plus, if it’s anything like the old building I’m getting married in, the room has enough character on it’s own to where decor is not really that important.

Best of luck to you, I’m sure it will turn out great.  Don’t stress too much over it!  You’re getting married, after all, that’s the best part 🙂 

Post # 7
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8579 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2014

I think some great lighting and choice decor pieces would do a world of good. Sometimes less is more. Lighting is great because it affects the entire room, instead of just a small footage space.

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