(Closed) DJ vs Friends Husband

posted 8 years ago in Music
  • poll: who should we have DJ?
    professional! : (9 votes)
    100 %
    our friend! : (0 votes)
  • Post # 3
    Member
    7174 posts
    Busy Beekeeper

    Do you know your friend’s husband?  Meaning, is he responsible, etc.  Has he DJ’d before, etc.

    It sounds like there is a lot of uncertainty with the friend… which would make me lean toward the professional.   

    Post # 5
    Member
    548 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: November 2011

    If he hasn’t DJ’ed before, I’d be hesitant to have my wedding be his first gig. A bad DJ can really ruin a good party. On the other hand, get a great DJ and everyone will have a blast. I’d be scared to take the risk and would go with the professional.

    Post # 6
    Member
    544 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    Although the friend option seems “friendlier,” the truth is that if a friend screws up, it can be really hard to confront them about the issue. At least with a professional the contract is purely business, which makes solving issues much easier since you’re paying for a service. Favors can be a lot harder to criticize.

    Post # 7
    Bee
    916 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: December 2010 - Al Cielo / La Laguna

    I would definelty see how it goes this weekend. If it goes well then I would totally consider it but there is more to the whole DJ thing that just playing songs. You have to be able to read the crowd and tell how to keep the party going. And the price you got quoted is excellent! We are paying almost that for 4 hours so I voted go pro. =)

    Post # 9
    Member
    5388 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: December 2010

    My FH’s cousin is a professional. He offered to dj at any amount that we wanted to pay him, but he has been unreliable. I have not been able to contact him about our songs, so we are going with a professional that we don’t know (We’ve been trying to call him for over a month). FH’s cousin reg. price was $700 and the professional said that he would do videography all day and dj for $2000. Now we have to fire family because he won’t answer our phone calls. I say go with the pro.

    Post # 10
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    8353 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: March 2011

    I think a professional DJ would be best. Your friend’s husband won’t be able to enjoy the entire wedding, if he has to worry about the playlist and everything else, and like you stated, “what if he drinks to much?”, or forgets something. You wouldn’t want his actions or nonactions to get in the way of your now friendship.

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