(Closed) DJ – what qualities are important?

posted 8 years ago in Reception
  • poll: Most important qualities in a DJ?
    many years of experience : (1 votes)
    4 %
    happy, upbeat personality : (4 votes)
    17 %
    both! : (15 votes)
    63 %
    other : (4 votes)
    17 %
  • Post # 3
    1426 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: December 1969

    I would say see how willing they are to work within your preferences.  You don’t want someone who is a music snob and will drag his feet if you want to play something he doesn’t like.  You also don’t want someone who is so caught up in what the music at a wedding “should” be that he won’t listen to you when you say you don’t want the chicken dance played.  So try to see what their philosophy is about how to get people dancing if they aren’t, how they decide what types of music to play, etc.

    Post # 4
    2788 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: January 2011

    Something that is important to me (we are just looking into bands and djs now actually) is that they are not “over the top” in their emcee-ing.  i really dislike the djs who talk too much, too loudly and make the wedding the “dj show.” 

    i would see if either dj will be playing at a bar or open party soon, maybe you could stop by and see them ‘spin.’

    good luck with your decision!

    Post # 5
    1001 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: May 2010

    What was important to me was that the DJ not be “wacky”.  I hate when he’s on the microphone all night, pulling out boxes of props, saying inappropriate things, etc.

    I would go with the young, upbeat guy. 

    Post # 6
    1585 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    I just didn’t want a super Cheezy baby!

    Post # 7
    2859 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2011 - Bartram's Garden

    Experience. I don’t care about my DJ’s personality because I don’t want him to do any speaking or emceeing, He’s just playing music.

    Post # 8
    404 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: October 2010

    The best DJs know how to read the audience and keep them dancing.  Think about your guests- will the group as a whole relate to the younger DJ or the more experienced DJ? 

    Post # 9
    2208 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: July 2010

    Most important thing: willing to follow directions and listen. If your DJ already thinks he knows what he should play without talking to you about your taste, that is a huge NO to me.

    Post # 11
    94 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    I’d prefer the young DJ, simply because he/she might have better “under the radar” music that would suprise your guests – in a good way. The older person might just play the classics, which may or may not be what you want.

    Post # 12
    202 posts
    Helper bee

    I think if you can have both experience and personality then that’s great.  In your situation, I’d honestly say you should probably go with whichever DJ suits your wedding style more.  If possible, see if you can visit a reception that each one is DJing and see them live.  Maybe that would give you a better idea.  Or see if you can get references from actual couples who’ve had each of them at their weddings. 

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