(Closed) Do any of you bee's have a friend that….

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
717 posts
Busy bee

yes.  we have different interests, different social groups, different lifestyles.  but we’ve been friends for like a hundred years so we always keep each other in the loop.

Post # 4
5065 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2014

People change and friendships sometimes need to end…I wouldn’t be friends with someone if they continually annoyed me. I was given a piece of advice once they said you need to be around life givers not suckers.  

Post # 5
386 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Yep, I have one of those. We are as different as night and day.

Post # 6
2137 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

haha i do, i almost never hang out with her but when i do shes the best. But on FB and instagram shes soooo annoying lol

Post # 7
7902 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2012 - Pelican Grand Beach Resort

I had one, but I dumped her. It was no longer a healthy friendship, for either of us I suspect.

Post # 10
11167 posts
Sugar Beekeeper

Yes! I have been distancing myself from her and her crazy and negative ways. She is so selfish and immature that it is hard to get anything more than frustration out of our friendship. People have been telling me for years to let her go but it is hard with so much history. I am starting to realize how right they have been all along.

Post # 11
7609 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

I don’t have anyone like this in my life.

Post # 12
679 posts
Busy bee

I did. We’d been friends since kindergarten so we kind of just kept being friends, but as we got older, it was clear we were just entirely different people who would not have become friends if we’d met when we were older. She was also the type of person who would talk behind your back and tell other people your business, so you couldn’t really trust her. She talked about all of her other friends to me, behind their backs, so it shouldn’t have come as any surprise to me when I found out she was gossiping about me and sharing private things about me with other people.

A couple of years ago I basically ended the 18 year friendship by telling her I didnt appreciate the way she treated her “friends” and had no need for such drama in my life.

I really don’t miss her.

Post # 13
2398 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

@StuporDuck:  That is so funny lol 

I had a friend like that but she was just way to much drama. I had to end our friendship because she always tried to be-little me. That is not a friend if you ask me. 

Post # 14
4416 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I don’t, because I moved to go to college and stayed out here ever since, so that sort of broke off any old friendships. For a while I thought it was sad that I didn’t have any of those “lifelong friends” people talk about, but I must say it made it easy to pick my bridesmaids Tongue Out  Current best friend, sister, Future Sister-In-Law, BAM DONE!

Post # 15
3569 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

Nope. While history has a long time to do it, I think at a certain point if it becomes toxic then you need to let it go.

Post # 16
1475 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2014


I have one.  She’s as sweet as can be a great all around person. BUT she is just not not as fun and crazy as me and my other friends…and she is always trying to hang out with me one on one.

I feel terrible that she and I dont have the same connection or chemistry as the the other girls and I do, but its just not there.  And she wants to be a bridesmaid, she expects it!

Its funny how double sided relationship are…someone may think that you and them are tight…when in your opinion…not so much…

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