(Closed) do any other couples here have sex everyday.

posted 4 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 31
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

This makes my junk ache. 

Post # 32
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

We are lucky to have it more than twice a fortnight. Hello, disability. Sex is amazing but it can’t be everything.

Post # 33
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

jennymack89:  I absolutely would, but life is too busy. Especially for him!

It’s lovely if you can connect in that way with ease.

Post # 34
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2010

No. And I wouldn’t want to. I have lots of other things to do.

Post # 35
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Worker bee

We have sex morning and night sometimes too. And we def do it more on the weekends. Sometimes in the middle of the night we do it. It’s def a lot, but I wouldn’t say its always twice a day. Its usually at night and maybe sometimes in the morning. I know we wouldn’t be able to live with it just once or twice a week. Even if we’re tired, we know it’s important and end up craving it. We also shower together too all the time and that makes us feel closer, but usually in the morning though. I think if it fits your life and you’re both satisfied, that’s all that matters. 

Post # 36
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Busy bee

 Awwww… No! We had a week in July this year where we did it every day. That was fun. But, if I’m being honest my body is was too small and my husband is much to large. I’d be waking sound bull legged and popping Advil. Sex is great but as my husband says “I’d rather have great sex once every 3 days then mediocre sex every day” but if it works for you have at it.

Post # 37
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Sugar bee

We have sex most days, either first thing in the morning or in the evening before dinner. We used to go like rabbits when we were a new couple, 4-5 times on a friday or saturday night. I feel like we barely find time for ONCE a day now, nevermind like 6 times on a weekend day, DAYUM.

Post # 38
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2015

In the beginning of our relationship we had sex multiple times per day when we were together. That naturally slowed down over time. I think it’s normal for there to be phases in relationships where sometimes you are having lots of sex and other times you are having less. I just had a baby almost 3 weeks ago so it has been awhile since we had sex. I would say that as long as both you and your partner are on the same page about frequency, then there is no issue. But the fact that you said you have sex because you are afraid of missing days doesn’t sound healthy or normal. Like others said, there are circumstances that come up that mean sex has to wait and there is nothing wrong with that. There is also nothing wrong with just slowing down and giving your body a break! If you’re having sex just to keep up a schedule then you’te not having sex because you WANT to. That situation sounds really immature to me. 

Post # 39
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2016

My vagina hurts just reading this.

No one in my household has time for that many sex sessions a day…or week lol

Post # 40
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2015

I feel like this is normal if you’re in college or a new relationship….

But in our lives… Neither of us has the time or the will to bone 25 times a week! Lol. It seems like you might be a slave to your habit. 25% of your relationship is too much IMO but whatever floats your boat. 

Post # 41
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2017 - Vineyard on Long Island

In college, hell yeah! Now that we both work full time, hell no!

Post # 42
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 2017

We do it 2-3 times a week.. Period time is a no-go. So it averages out to about 6-7 times a month. I prefer quality over quantity. And we wouldnt have time to do it in the morning and at nigh. And 6 times on Sat? Good lord… who has time for that? What about cooking and cleaning and laundry and grocery shopping not to mention dog walkkng and seeing family…. 

There were days very early in our relationship when we have done it a couple times a day but like a couple days a week like that not every day…aint nobody got time…

Post # 43
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2017

2 x weekday + 4-6 x weekend day = ow.

Post # 44
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2016

Well. Your sex life sounds a little intense. Comparably, we have sex a lot if he’s home for the day (2/3 times is normal) but otherwise, between the daily 12+ hour shifts he works, we’ll either have sex every other day or go a couple of days without it. Usually we’re both too tired to think much about it, though if it gets to be too long then I’ll throw an angsty fit, haha.

I think its healthy to not have sex too often. I have to say that I’ve had that type of relationship and the novelty of sex was affected just a little. It’s exhausting and how do you even find that kind of time?

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