Post # 1
My bridesmaids are wearing simple navy cocktail dresses with deep V straps. They are wearing neutral (gold / beige) shoes having simple hairstyles.
As I look for jewelry for them to wear for the wedding but I am finding mostly blingy jewerley. Lots of rhinestones, fake gems, etc. I see it look great with other dresses, but I don’t think it is what I want. I am going to be wearing simple jewlery. Can I give my bridesmaids simple stud earrings? I was thinking of small gold knots, like these ones:
Are they too simple? I know my bridesmaids will wear them again, I think they are classy. But do I NEED to have statement jewelry? Or am I just being brainwashed from too many bridal websites!?
Post # 3
yes, you’ve been brainwashed! they can wear whatever you want. don’t search for “bridesmaids jewelry”
Post # 4
Let them wear what they want. Why stress over little things that no one will remember or care about?
Post # 5
Definitiely! I personally prefer it that way too. Those earrings are very nice btw and I think they’d go nicely with the dress you described.
Post # 6
I like those earrings for what you have described! Go for it. I can’t even remember what my BMs wore and I designed their jewelry for them. I either went with a simple pearl stud or a pearl drop earring.
Post # 7
You don’t need to do anything! Haha but seriously, have them wear whatever you want them to. I really like those earrings, so if they fit with the style of your wedding and the styles of your girls, then for sure go for it!
Post # 8
@Saccebers: Don’t search “wedding attire” or “bridesmaid earrings”…. it’s full of overpriced, over the top nonsense! The earrings you picked are beautiful. Buy what you think the girls will like. Period.
Post # 9
Thank you all! Sometimes you need someone to remind you that you don’t HAVE to do anything!
Post # 10
@Saccebers: They don’t need statement jewellery, if anybody does it should be you.
Mine wore this set.
Post # 11
They can wear studs – mine are! I already purchased my 2 BM’s and MOH’s earrings. I cheated because it’s doubling as their gift!!! I got them all matching, simple diamond studs. I am SOO excited to give them to them! Hopefully they love em’, and I LOVE the gold knots that you picked out!
Post # 12
I like those knot studs. Of course you don’t need sparkly studs!
Post # 13
I agree with the PP’s who said that it doesn’t really matter what they wear. I personally am planning on getting small diamond (well faux diamond) studs for my MOH. I don’t think it needs to be blingy. I’m also going to ask her to wear her pearl necklace.
Post # 14
Mine are getting black pearl studs with matching necklace – classic simple elegance that they will wear again