(Closed) Do Bridesmaids/Bridal Parties usually help pay for wedding vendors?

posted 4 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 2
1710 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

No, you definitely should not have to help pay for vendors. That is the bride and groom’s responsibility.

Post # 3
8695 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2013

No, bridal party is not supposed to help pay for wedding vendors.

Post # 4
3731 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

BreezyBride24:  No. No sane person I have ever met would think to ask their Bridal Party to pitch in for vendor items at their wedding and/or reception. Crazy. I’ve been in many wedding and not once have I been asked to kick in towards a DJ, photo booth, favors, etc.

Post # 5
965 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

she’s taking advantage, looks like you’re already paying enough to be part of this wedding as it is. The bride is beyond rude. 

Post # 6
2512 posts
Sugar bee

BreezyBride24:  Absolutely not. You don’t even have to pitch in for a necessary vendor. The wedding is for the couple (or in some cases the parents) to fund.

In my social circle the bridal shower and bachelorette are funded by the bridal party but never anything to do with the actual wedding or reception (besides of course dress, hotel, etc.)

Post # 8
3037 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2015 - Walnut Hill Bed & Breakfast

No. I don’t think you should. IF you do, and the cost is within the budget of the gift you would have been giving I might consider offering it as the gift.  Perhaps get the bridesmaids together and discuss doing the photobooth for her as a group gift. 

However I would certaintly be a little uncomfortable that she asked you to help her pay for something like that. 

Post # 9
1478 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

Absolutely not.

Post # 10
1148 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

BreezyBride24:  no way!! I’d feel taken advantage of if i was asked, and like a completely jackass if I was the one asking. I would politely respond that you are unable to contribute to that cost. 

Post # 11
577 posts
Busy bee

Nope. No. No. No. No. No. Nope.



Post # 12
1245 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2014 - San Francisco, CA

What?! No! That’s nuts. You’re a friend, not an ATM. Tell her to stuff it (politely, if you want to maintain the friendship, like “Martha, I’m sorry but that’s not in my budget. If it’s required of the bridal party I’m afraid I won’t be able to participate.”)

Post # 13
1316 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: A very pretty church.


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