(Closed) Do brothers have to receive equal treatment?

posted 7 years ago in Grooms/men
Post # 3
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

If you want both of your brothers in your wedding, then tell your bf that you want both of them. My brother is in my wedding and even if my Fiance didn’t know him that well, he would still be in it. He’s in it because I want him in it. If you didn’t know his sister that well would he still want her in it?

Post # 4
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I agree with @kjgirl05.

Post # 5
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

i think it needs to be up to your boyfriend. Im having my sisters and he is having his brother but i would never have demanded he have my brother (if i had one) and he doesnt mind that his sister is not included. Your bridesmaids you pick because they are people you can lean on, people who will support your in your marriage, who will be there when you need them and will walk with you through the good and bad. I feel it is the same for groomsmen. It needs to be a personal and individual decision.

 

But thats just my thoughts! 😀 Everyone feels differently! 😀

Post # 6
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Wannabee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I am dealing with a similar situation. I have two younger brothers, one 18 and one 15. I am struggling because I would like the older of the two to be a groomsmen. But I feel if I ask one, I would have to ask the other. My fiance says to make the younger one an usher but I feel like feelings would be hurt. What to do??

Post # 7
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2009

The guy gets to pick his side, the girl gets to pick hers.

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