(Closed) Do exes have a built in radar for when you're in a serious relationship?!

posted 5 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Helper bee

From my experience, being in a relationship is a magnet for crazy exes, sane exes and every guy in between! I can assure you it is pretty normal for men to want what they can’t have.

Post # 4
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: March 2012

To answer the heading question…. YES.  They crawl out of the woodwork. Nice that it happens once in awhile so there are NO regrets….. just embarasement

Post # 6
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2018

I’m so glad my only ex is FH. Sounds like a nightmare!

Post # 8
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

@ForeverBirds:  wow!! well just remember that Big always turned up on Carrie’s life everytime she was happy hee hee !!!  xoxo

Post # 9
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: January 2013

Yep. I’ve never felt as “desirable” to my exes outside of a new relationship, lol! Ridiculous. 

I had one ex that had moved away, and I had been talking with right before I met Darling Husband. I had mentioned wanting to travel down and see him (he lives out of state now), then I left Von vacation and didn’t really talk to him while I was gone. During that vacation, my now Darling Husband and I started talking more and then we went out on our first date the day after I got home, so the next time my ex talked to me I was already dating DH! Ex was so pissed, lol. Then throughout the relationship he would message me on FB asking i would still come visit, if I was still with Darling Husband, blahblahblah. When I got engaged he tweaked and actEd like I was the love of his life, even changed his middle name on FB to “heartbroken” LOL. I just blocked him and haven’t had to deal with his ass again! 

Post # 11
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

@ForeverBirds:  lol oh sorry hon, you know, Big and Carrie from the Sex and The City…sorry!

Post # 13
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

@ForeverBirds:  Oh no need to be…i forget that not every one lives in my little head lol … what are you reading now?  Iam always up for a good book.  The last i read was Best Friends Forever…really got me on my feet!

Post # 15
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

@ForeverBirds:  Oh tx, i will totally check them out ! ;)))

Post # 16
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2014 - Lodge

Men have a radar when a woman is “taken”. When I was single no one hit on me. Exes were assholes, men in general seemed to have lost interest in me and I figured I’d end up alone. When I was introduced to my Fiance I was amazed that he was still single, sexy, funny, smart, had his life together. When we started getting seriousI would be at a bar with my girls and guys left and right would be hitting on me. A few times I had exes contact me seeing “what I was up to”. I even had on ex apologize for the way he treated me, that he shouldn’t have let me go and he regrets it (one of the few exes I actually sorta stayed friends with. We obviously don’t hang out anymore but we are friendly when we run into each other). I have no idea how men figure this out but its like we give off a scent that only “dogs” ( and by dogs I mean the low life losers who can’t take “I’m in a committed relationship thanks-but-no-thanks” for an answer) can smell.

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