(Closed) Do good days make for bad nights?

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
1297 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

Definitely. We bought an apartment together and a new puppy and when I mentioned getting married he told me that I should just be happy with what I have and stop trying to move quickly (It’s not quick it has been 7 1/2 years!!) I can’t even tell my grandparents that I have bought a house because they are VERY religious and wrote off one of my cousins when they found out she was pregnant before getting married. So as much as I love our life together it is time to be husband and wife and the fact that we are not makes me really sad sometimes. 

Post # 4
3305 posts
Sugar bee

Yes- all the time when we were living together—- we were doing much more than boyfriend/girlfriends do- we basically had a family so hearing the girlfriend word just was like a dagger. *hugs*

Post # 5
1192 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

I used to hate being called “the girlfirend” it felt like I wasnt important when he introduced me because that is what I felt like being “just the girlfreind” now we are engaged and it makes it quite a bit better being call his fiancee rather then his girlfriend. It will happen for you soon enough and good for you for not turning it into another discussion or arguement that takes a lot of self control, I know it happened with me where I wish I just could have kept my mouth shut. Good luck hun

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