(Closed) Do I ask my SO what the hold up is?

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
  • poll: Do I ask my SO what the hold up is with the ring?
    Let my SO and my best friend handle the situation : (33 votes)
    94 %
    Read the e-mail and try to sort it out : (0 votes)
    Say something to SO and try to help figure out a solution : (2 votes)
    6 %
  • Post # 3
    95 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: March 2015

    No, if he wanted you to know about it, then he would have told you already.

    Doesn’t matter what the hold up is, sounds like it’s one that is our of his control. So just wait!

    Post # 4
    304 posts
    Helper bee

    I agree. You should not get involved. Let him handle it. Patiently wait until he figures it out and proposes. 

    Post # 5
    107 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: November 2013

    @mrsbzzbee:  +1. Agreed. Just let them sort it out. If he seems stressed, tend to his needs, and ask if you can be helpful.

    Post # 6
    2743 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: October 2014 - Disney

    I’m with these ladies. He’s already frustrated with this hold up. Just trust its coming and he’s taking care of it. I’m sure when he gets the ring he’ll propose pretty quickly.

    I went through this with my ring. One of the issues my fiance had to be very honest about since I had to pick a second center stone :/. He was upset and wanted it done quickly. We then had a casting issue which he told me about, and another hold up that I am not sure what it was but he told me it had to be delayed again. Note my proposal wasnt a super big surprise which is what your bf seems to be trying to plan. We had already set a wedding date, and Fiance had sent me to buy a dress. So this was more of us waiting to formally announce than anything else but it was still frustrating. It was particularly frustrating for him more than me because I knew getting the ring was fine and dandy then he had to do his thing which I had no control over so really for me it was just a wash. I was just happy we’d agreed to get married and the whole ball was rolling it was the most peaceful portion of our engagement for me, for him the most frustrating.

    Post # 8
    114 posts
    Blushing bee

    Haha sorry I voted no too! I bet if you can keep it zipped a little longer it won’t be for long.

    I’m excited for you!!!

    Post # 9
    11747 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 1999

    he’s a big boy and can handle it. If he wanted your help he would have told you already. 

    Post # 10
    3823 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    @Lily_of_the_valley:  Leave it alone. Let him do what he needs to do on his own. I know it’s hard but you’ve got to busy yourself with something else. 

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