(Closed) Do i do my own bachelorette party invites?

posted 8 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
4485 posts
Honey bee

The bride does not send out invitations since she is the guest of honor. That is the responsibility of the bridesmaids.

Post # 4
440 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

is the party already planned? what would the guests need to pay for besides transportation?

I pretty much planned mine after a bunch of Bridesmaid or Best Man drama went down & told everyone (thru text, emails & hearsay) when and where it was going to be (san francisco which is 2 hours away) and it turned out only 2 people decided to come. (well one lives in SF.. anyway) it was totally fine with me because I was done with the drama & decided to just do things my own way & it turned out to be a lot of fun with just the 2 girls.

Post # 5
14494 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

You probably should not be the one to send out invitations to ask people to pay for you. 

Post # 6
175 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

If you’re worried about her getting it done, I say do most of the leg work for her.  Draft up the e-mail yourself, and remind her of the invite list you gave her (or send it to her again).  Then you can have her do the actual inviting, but also make sure it gets done!  Just an idea.

Post # 7
360 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: January 2011 - Gardens of the World

I say send out your own invites but dont expect or ask people to pay for you. I dont think it is fair for you to miss out on a party because you cant send out your own invites.

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