(Closed) Do I have a right to be angry, or am I overreacting?

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 32
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

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@asscherlover:  I agree, maybe try and get a hold of his friends to help figure out where the hell he is.

Post # 33
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Ure not over reacting at all. I’d be livid! Hope he is okay. Do u have #s for his friends?

Post # 35
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

@HerNameWasLola:  I hope he’s okay and I’ll be checking back as well for the update! I’ve been in a vaguely similar situation when I was visiting my parents (four hours away) and Fiance got drunk with his friends and was texting me and then I couldn’t get in touch with him for a couple of hours. It ended up that he fell asleep on the train home and just ended up at the end of the line, thank goodness, but I understand the panic you must be feeling not knowing.  I think tomorrow, as long as he didn’t drive drunk, you should explain to him how worried and sick he made you so he’ll understand. Keeping my fingers crossed that he’s okay! *hugs*

Post # 36
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

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@HerNameWasLola:  “these are relatively new friends that he met through work.”  You’re going to have to keep a close eye on that, now. 

Post # 37
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Um, I’d be furious! Not even funny at all to joke about drunk driving.

I hope he’s ok, but if it was me I’d be flipping my shit right now. Why didn’t he just call a cab. Really hope he’s ok. Keep us updated!

Post # 38
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Hope everything is ok, I’d be seeing red. Good luck!

Post # 40
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Busy bee

No way, I would have called his mother!! If you’re worried, why wouldn’t you?

Post # 41
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Newbee
  • Wedding: January 2013

Girl, I would be so furious. I don’t think you made a bad decision calling his mom. If itembarrasses him, too bad. It’s embarrassing that he made you so upset and worried! I really hope everything turns up alright and will keep following this. Good luck hun!

Post # 42
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

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@HerNameWasLola:  No you did NOT do bad! He did! What he did was NOT okay and you calling his mom was just you LOVING and CARING about him! Plus, sometimes it just helps to have someone worry WITH you, or at least know what was going on. 

I feel for you so much right now! I am a worrier and if my SO did this to be I would throw something at them the second they got in the door (sounds bad, but I am not kidding). 

๐Ÿ™ I am so sorry you are going through this. Worrying sucks! 

Post # 43
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

I don’t think you’re supposed to drink alcohol if you are taking anti-depressants.

 

I hope everything turns out okay!

Post # 44
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

i hope all is well too! My Fiance (now DH) had a DUi before we met and it is a nightmare to go through. He came home wasted at 6pm one night after golfing and I was so furious i told him if it ever happened again the wedding was off! I lectured him about killing people or himself, I lectured him about all the fees we’ve paid, all the classes he’s gone to, all the TIME that is wasted as a result of a DUI. He knew I was serious about calling off the wedding and it has never happened again. Now, if he is gone for over 3 hours I just know to go meet up with him at whatever bar and wait til they are all done with drinks. No fights that way. I don’t ask him though. He is the type to say “I’m cool I can drive babe” and unfortunetely when you are already drunk you believe you can drive. And as for the friends he’s with, well If they are all drunk and taking cabs home and they hear he is fine they are too drunk to notice he isn’t. I don’t blame his friends becasue if they were sober they would take him home or put him in a cab or call me from his cell phone to get him.

Post # 45
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

@HerNameWasLola:  You are definately not overreacting. And don’t feel bad at all that you called his mom. He has you worried, who else would you call? You did a good thing.

When gets home, don’t yell, he may be out of it still. Let him sleep it off then in the morning, talk about it. Let him know what he put you through. Serious stuff. Also not cool to take anti-depressents with alcohol, can be dangerous.

Overall, not cool to be drinking and driving, not even typsy driving. Hope he gets his act together.

Post # 46
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I hope it turns out okay! Maybe let him pass out tonight and talk to him brihjt and early in the morning:) Like an hour after he passes out ๐Ÿ™‚ Maybe the grass needs to be mowed :0

I love having a list of very loud and obnoxious things that MUST be done if Fiance thinks it’s okay to get drunk and worry me all night ๐Ÿ™‚ (Doesn’t happen often, thankfully!)

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